"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think ive messed up!

SnapOutOfIt

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Right here it goes!

Theres this chic I have been "friendly" with for the past two months she doesnt want a relationship and I hear stories of her being with other guys other than me! I said to her I cant be with you if your with other guys? (was that wrong to say) She said she cant get into a relationship because she isnt ready and she would probably be unfaithful if she did because of the fact she wasnt ready etc etc!!!! Now I said before she could say it well Its all or nothing then I cant be just friends!!! and she said "nothing then, because I cant give you what you want!"

I care about this girl alot and dont want to lose her can I turn around what we initially started out like or do I jus give up on her and NEXT the *****??? Ive been sayin **** like I can be your friend aslong as we F**k etc jsu graspin on to stuff but doesnt seem like that is working!!

Any Ideas on how I can turn this situation around would be gratefull!!!

If its best just to move on then let me know! I'm stuck in limbo!

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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italostud

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Either keep fycking her and get a hold of your emotions(it sounds like you are completely incapable of that), or cut her out of your life altogether.
 
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Find out how to give her the best sex of her life.

David Shade you da man! Oh Yeah!!

Do it once, twice, then cut off the supply for a couple of weeks.
 

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She is being upfront about it - she just wants sex and nothing more at this point. So why not just give her that?
 
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