"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think ive messed up!

SnapOutOfIt

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Right here it goes!

Theres this chic I have been "friendly" with for the past two months she doesnt want a relationship and I hear stories of her being with other guys other than me! I said to her I cant be with you if your with other guys? (was that wrong to say) She said she cant get into a relationship because she isnt ready and she would probably be unfaithful if she did because of the fact she wasnt ready etc etc!!!! Now I said before she could say it well Its all or nothing then I cant be just friends!!! and she said "nothing then, because I cant give you what you want!"

I care about this girl alot and dont want to lose her can I turn around what we initially started out like or do I jus give up on her and NEXT the *****??? Ive been sayin **** like I can be your friend aslong as we F**k etc jsu graspin on to stuff but doesnt seem like that is working!!

Any Ideas on how I can turn this situation around would be gratefull!!!

If its best just to move on then let me know! I'm stuck in limbo!

Cheers
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Either keep fycking her and get a hold of your emotions(it sounds like you are completely incapable of that), or cut her out of your life altogether.
 
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Find out how to give her the best sex of her life.

David Shade you da man! Oh Yeah!!

Do it once, twice, then cut off the supply for a couple of weeks.
 

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She is being upfront about it - she just wants sex and nothing more at this point. So why not just give her that?
 
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