Alright I'm first month of University , however I feel it just better to post this in highscool.
I met a girl who lives in my dorm building and we started talking. I began to really like her , we hung out all the time ..ate all our meals together. I was normally ****y and funny , she was always laughing. I teased her , and complimented when appropriate. However , anyways I got to the point where I told her how I felt about two weeks ago.
She told me she just wanted to be friends in a nice way. The problem here is she genuinely meant it , and wanted to consistently continue to hang out. Don't get me wrong it's fun and stuff but the problem is I can't just be friends with a girl I like. I told her I might need three weeks of just space from her.
Then came thanksgiving weekend. I made out with a girl and was feeling pretty good about myself and thought I was over her. SO this resulted in probably the biggest mistake I've made..I told her it was ok for us to hang out again. She was excited , and I was too , shes actually a very good friend and person to hang out with.
Problem is though after a week of hanging out again , I've begun to like her again. And now it's worse because she's cried in my arms about how hurt she was by her ex boyfriend , and other secrets about her. I've moved into the worst of friends zone... one of her best.
I don't know how to stop liking her , or breaking a friendship without seriously hurting her. It is fun and torture being this girl's friend. One-itis is owning me here.
I met a girl who lives in my dorm building and we started talking. I began to really like her , we hung out all the time ..ate all our meals together. I was normally ****y and funny , she was always laughing. I teased her , and complimented when appropriate. However , anyways I got to the point where I told her how I felt about two weeks ago.
She told me she just wanted to be friends in a nice way. The problem here is she genuinely meant it , and wanted to consistently continue to hang out. Don't get me wrong it's fun and stuff but the problem is I can't just be friends with a girl I like. I told her I might need three weeks of just space from her.
Then came thanksgiving weekend. I made out with a girl and was feeling pretty good about myself and thought I was over her. SO this resulted in probably the biggest mistake I've made..I told her it was ok for us to hang out again. She was excited , and I was too , shes actually a very good friend and person to hang out with.
Problem is though after a week of hanging out again , I've begun to like her again. And now it's worse because she's cried in my arms about how hurt she was by her ex boyfriend , and other secrets about her. I've moved into the worst of friends zone... one of her best.
I don't know how to stop liking her , or breaking a friendship without seriously hurting her. It is fun and torture being this girl's friend. One-itis is owning me here.
yesterday.. about 4 months since that happened shes acting pretty into me..