"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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I think i'm too passive..

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I have lots of friends at school and all, and i'm happy with it, but i'm noticing that given a choice, most of my friends would rather hang out with another friend.
Thinking on it, i also noticed that i tend to be the one to go up to my friends or wait for them as opposed to them trying to get my attention.
So, i'm not sure how i ought to change this, any tips?
Like i imagine if i didn't wait for a friend in the hall, i doubt he'd try to catch up to me, or visa versa. For now, at least.

Thanks.
 

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ok so to sum it up you are not the most popular guy around and among friends you are probably the weakest link. What do people do to become popular in high school? do you really need us to explain it to you? do you really wants us to go over the list (playing sports, joining clubs, being talkative in class, acting c&f) etc etc etc??
 
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Nah, its not quite like that.
Its hard to explain. I wouldn't really say that that is a good way of putting it.
 
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this is the best solution..it's not the most popular..but it's the best..
Popularity:pointless. It can only help you get a girl or two..but honestly if they wouldn't go out with you if you weren't popular..fuk them...think of a good reason and i'll tell you why it's not...

but you say it's not really popularity..it's your status among your group of friends...this is a small matter
hunger, war, poverty..
i know those issues probably don't concern you and are not evident in daily life..but it's true..

be satisfied with your life..you don't need to wait for your friends if they don't care as to whether or not you wait..why catch up if they don't wait...be independent..live life..good company comes to those who are uneasy about compliments but happy with criticism...sort of relates...be an alpha...work on your morals...that's all that really matters..
 
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