"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think I'm out of my box too much...

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Is this a bad thing? I've realized that I have been like this since the start of senior year. I dance everywhere ever since and have little to no thoughts if others are watching. I shout when I get pumped up out of anything.
I am more talkative in class, And I'm always open to whoever has their doors welcoming me(metaphors, metaphors).
I have made so much friends since then and I do things for self enjoyment. It is almost as if I have broken my Introverted self, haha! However, I have noticed that I lack response to many social qeues. I also think that I have too much fun and I never get things done(homework, chores, etc). Would this truly be a self-improvement or something else?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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As for the extroversion, thats an improvement. The lack of getting things done is not. You need to know when to be serious and playful. It cant be one or the other all the time.
 

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Fuuuuuuudge, I really need to work on those. I have a personal statement to finish, scholarships to sign up for, a drivers license to earn, and a bank account to manage. Being an adult is overwhelming. I should just face it and get things done.

I am having fun with my Extroverted side. But then I have noticed that I'm a natural introvert. I have not been able to talk to this shy girl that I've always liked. Shes always around but she seems to avoid me all the ti me so I just never say anything. It's killing me right now because I can't get over her. I want to fix this so I made a small assumption that when some shy girls know you like them, they will act shy towards you from then on.
 

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Being your new extroverted self is certainly an improvement! But - and I don't want to make your paranoid - also be aware of everything around you. You don't want to be that guy that's too loud and annoying all the time. You know?

Not doing your **** is not a good thing. You probably need a combination of motivation and organization ('cause it seems like you've got awareness, but on the other hand I don't know what your work ethic is. If you don't have a work ethic, none of the following text will matter). I've found that true motivation to succeed comes with time and experience - meaning experiencing failures, success, the real world, and just learning how things really work. It's not something that will just automatically appear. That being said, it will only increase over time if you want it to. Your experience means nothing if you're not constantly thinking about it (your motivation) and trying to make yourself better.

As for the organization, you can start that today here: http://www.kratosguide.com/16-habits-you-should-do-every-day/
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alexlefty, thats an awesome site!
 

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Watawata said:
Alexlefty, thats an awesome site!
Thanks man. Everything on there is amazing
 
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