“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think I'm out of my box too much...

jericg

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Is this a bad thing? I've realized that I have been like this since the start of senior year. I dance everywhere ever since and have little to no thoughts if others are watching. I shout when I get pumped up out of anything.
I am more talkative in class, And I'm always open to whoever has their doors welcoming me(metaphors, metaphors).
I have made so much friends since then and I do things for self enjoyment. It is almost as if I have broken my Introverted self, haha! However, I have noticed that I lack response to many social qeues. I also think that I have too much fun and I never get things done(homework, chores, etc). Would this truly be a self-improvement or something else?
 

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As for the extroversion, thats an improvement. The lack of getting things done is not. You need to know when to be serious and playful. It cant be one or the other all the time.
 

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Fuuuuuuudge, I really need to work on those. I have a personal statement to finish, scholarships to sign up for, a drivers license to earn, and a bank account to manage. Being an adult is overwhelming. I should just face it and get things done.

I am having fun with my Extroverted side. But then I have noticed that I'm a natural introvert. I have not been able to talk to this shy girl that I've always liked. Shes always around but she seems to avoid me all the ti me so I just never say anything. It's killing me right now because I can't get over her. I want to fix this so I made a small assumption that when some shy girls know you like them, they will act shy towards you from then on.
 

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Being your new extroverted self is certainly an improvement! But - and I don't want to make your paranoid - also be aware of everything around you. You don't want to be that guy that's too loud and annoying all the time. You know?

Not doing your **** is not a good thing. You probably need a combination of motivation and organization ('cause it seems like you've got awareness, but on the other hand I don't know what your work ethic is. If you don't have a work ethic, none of the following text will matter). I've found that true motivation to succeed comes with time and experience - meaning experiencing failures, success, the real world, and just learning how things really work. It's not something that will just automatically appear. That being said, it will only increase over time if you want it to. Your experience means nothing if you're not constantly thinking about it (your motivation) and trying to make yourself better.

As for the organization, you can start that today here: http://www.kratosguide.com/16-habits-you-should-do-every-day/
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Alexlefty, thats an awesome site!
 

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Watawata said:
Alexlefty, thats an awesome site!
Thanks man. Everything on there is amazing
 
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