“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think I'm gonna get professional pics done and hammer online dating

bigdave17

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I look decent in regular pics but if I can get a professional to really maximize my appearance, I should have a decent shot with online dating. My best friend found an awesome girl online and he is 5'5. Surely I can find someone being 5'10?

For you guys who do OLD and make a lot of money, do you put your income on there? have you had good success one way or another? The way I see the income thing is that it may attract gold diggers, but it will also be very appealing to professional women who make good money themselves (which is my goal ofcourse).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Put it up.

~$150K/yr. is the kind of money that will appeal to professional/well off types as their equal more so that it will attract gold diggers. True gold diggers aim higher than that.
that's what I'm thinking also

I would love to date a chick like say who does marketing and makes 80k a year. We would be balling out of control. Talking about 200 to 250K total income household and I live in a cheap area
 
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The potential is there to go higher. The "Uptown girl" I met makes roughly twice as much as I do right now. If we were to go that distance, we'd have a total household income of about $400-$500K/yr.

Just stop looking at your money from a provider perspective. Think of it as complimentary.
I try to be good at everything man

my problem is I just can't get any good opportunities with cute women who fit my requirements to showcase my abilities. I have no doubt in my mind that any girl who spends a lot of time around me will like me quite a bit
 

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I'd get a good professional headshot. Something classy. I think that's really useful as a first OLD or Tinder pic, it's very difficult to get a decent headshot from group photos or selfies.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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