"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think I'm gonna get professional pics done and hammer online dating

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I look decent in regular pics but if I can get a professional to really maximize my appearance, I should have a decent shot with online dating. My best friend found an awesome girl online and he is 5'5. Surely I can find someone being 5'10?

For you guys who do OLD and make a lot of money, do you put your income on there? have you had good success one way or another? The way I see the income thing is that it may attract gold diggers, but it will also be very appealing to professional women who make good money themselves (which is my goal ofcourse).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Amante Silvestre said:
Put it up.

~$150K/yr. is the kind of money that will appeal to professional/well off types as their equal more so that it will attract gold diggers. True gold diggers aim higher than that.
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that's what I'm thinking also

I would love to date a chick like say who does marketing and makes 80k a year. We would be balling out of control. Talking about 200 to 250K total income household and I live in a cheap area
 
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Amante Silvestre said:
The potential is there to go higher. The "Uptown girl" I met makes roughly twice as much as I do right now. If we were to go that distance, we'd have a total household income of about $400-$500K/yr.

Just stop looking at your money from a provider perspective. Think of it as complimentary.
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I try to be good at everything man

my problem is I just can't get any good opportunities with cute women who fit my requirements to showcase my abilities. I have no doubt in my mind that any girl who spends a lot of time around me will like me quite a bit
 
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I'd get a good professional headshot. Something classy. I think that's really useful as a first OLD or Tinder pic, it's very difficult to get a decent headshot from group photos or selfies.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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