"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This broad I'm seeing isn't putting out. It's been about two months and I finally hit the brink the other day when I nailed one of my ex-girlfriends. To be honest I don't feel bad at all, and I'm starting to realize I don't like her that much... I want to nail her because she's hot!

She likes me alot but she needs to know what is up. I'm thinking about calling her and telling her that I no longer want to see her if she is going to keep practicing for her role as the Virgin Mary.

Or

I could just not call her when I say I will, not return her calls, blah blah blah. You know eventually she'll get the idea I no longer want to hang around a iron-locked vagina.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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well do that and tell us how it works out for you...
 

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itishe said:
She likes me alot but she needs to know what is up. I'm thinking about calling her and telling her that I no longer want to see her if she is going to keep practicing for her role as the Virgin Mary.
Hahahha, oh man, thats classic.

Don't be completely confrontational about it. Yes, make sure that she understands that your time is important and is reserved for real women, not girls. After two months and no sex, you are dealing with a girl not a woman. Tell her you like her, but sex is an important part of a relationship and no relationship can survive very long without it.
 

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Tell her to suck you off or live with getting droped. If she isn't satisfying your needs...Next. Its what you want no she wants.
 

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Honestly... drop her. Don't even bother to say why. Obviously your goal is a sexual relationship and it seems like this girl is holding back because she wants something long term and is afraid of looking like a skank or because you aren't making her that hot.

Drop her. If you DJ'd right she'd be wanting to rip YOUR pants off.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What's the best way to go about telling her I want sex without totally blowing any chance of getting sex from her?

Also, shut the **** up about being "DJ enough". I want to smack the **** out of you when you tell me this. Do you guys ever factor in the girl in these equations? It's always the guy not making her hot enough, or me being fly enough for her vagina. :box:
 

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You could just be a p&ssy and tell her your fustrated cause you ain't getting none from her and need some. Then, she knows how bad you want it so she can have power over you. Don't play her little game.
 

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This makes me think.

I'm not officially in a relationship with her, as I believe I need sex before I can consider "going out" with a girl. She won't put out unless I'm "going out" with her a couple of her friends tell me. So I'm thinking it'd be best if I just don't contact her again... as I cannot really break up with a girl that I'm not going out with.

What would you folks say in this situation out of curiosity. I've never had to get rid of a chick due to not putting out.
 

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Easy. IGNORE HER. SEE OTHER WOMEN. CUT OFF ALL CONTACT.
 

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itishe said:
What's the best way to go about telling her I want sex without totally blowing any chance of getting sex from her?

Also, shut the **** up about being "DJ enough". I want to smack the **** out of you when you tell me this. Do you guys ever factor in the girl in these equations? It's always the guy not making her hot enough, or me being fly enough for her vagina. :box:
Dude, it's simple. You want to lay her. She's not giving it up. Move on. We do factor in the girl... and she's not ****ing you and you want to get ****ed. Why are you wasting your time? You can find somebody who will provide what you want.

And never ever tell them what you "need." You need to make them think they want it first.

Yes, I know, it's hard as hell to do that sometimes, especially when you actually start liking the girl.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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