"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AnkleBreaker

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Ok well i got a date for Friday a date for Sunday and a date for next Friday. The bad thing is all 3 of these girls work at the same place i do so what happens when they start talking, and bring up that i took one of them ona date then the other says he took me out too and then they all find out im so screwd.

And ther all older then me im 19, ther (21) Hb7 (22)Hb9 (28)Hb6
thinking of canceling on the 28 year old even though she'll probably put out on the first date just seems like that kinda girl from talking with her, plus she knows i flirt with other girls and doesnt mind.

And maybe this one too heres her email
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First of all Sweetheart i don't have a BF. My relationship life is a living soap opera. Let's just make this short I ended a three year relationship in Oct. Now I'm out to just party and have fun. Im not looking for someone. But if the right guy comes along i wont turn him away. If you wanna hook up this weekend give me a call sweetie. I work sat. and friday I have to go to my best freinds BD so call my cell and i'll see what i'm doing . By the way get over it, I'm going to call you sweetheart.
LAter sweetheart,

This is crazy i went from no girls after me too all the girls at work after me what do i do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nw1512

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You have nothing to hide.

And if your upfront about everything IF they ask you something about the "other"

Say someone along the lines of

"Yes I am dating other girls but there is nothing serious and i will not lie to you and i will not make any promises to you. I am not ready for a relationship but if something develops im not opposed to that either"

The only thing that is goin to happen is there goin to compete for you.

Act as if everything is perfectly fine in dating three women at the same time and you'll be fine.

BE CONGRUENT AND ENJOY.
 

Leporello

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You decided to date three girls from the same place?

You're an idiot.

Simple logistics, man.
 

Mojo604

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Originally posted by Leporello
You decided to date three girls from the same place?

You're an idiot.

Simple logistics, man.
Right on the button.
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