"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AnkleBreaker

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Ok well i got a date for Friday a date for Sunday and a date for next Friday. The bad thing is all 3 of these girls work at the same place i do so what happens when they start talking, and bring up that i took one of them ona date then the other says he took me out too and then they all find out im so screwd.

And ther all older then me im 19, ther (21) Hb7 (22)Hb9 (28)Hb6
thinking of canceling on the 28 year old even though she'll probably put out on the first date just seems like that kinda girl from talking with her, plus she knows i flirt with other girls and doesnt mind.

And maybe this one too heres her email
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First of all Sweetheart i don't have a BF. My relationship life is a living soap opera. Let's just make this short I ended a three year relationship in Oct. Now I'm out to just party and have fun. Im not looking for someone. But if the right guy comes along i wont turn him away. If you wanna hook up this weekend give me a call sweetie. I work sat. and friday I have to go to my best freinds BD so call my cell and i'll see what i'm doing . By the way get over it, I'm going to call you sweetheart.
LAter sweetheart,

This is crazy i went from no girls after me too all the girls at work after me what do i do.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nw1512

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You have nothing to hide.

And if your upfront about everything IF they ask you something about the "other"

Say someone along the lines of

"Yes I am dating other girls but there is nothing serious and i will not lie to you and i will not make any promises to you. I am not ready for a relationship but if something develops im not opposed to that either"

The only thing that is goin to happen is there goin to compete for you.

Act as if everything is perfectly fine in dating three women at the same time and you'll be fine.

BE CONGRUENT AND ENJOY.
 
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You decided to date three girls from the same place?

You're an idiot.

Simple logistics, man.
 
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Originally posted by Leporello
You decided to date three girls from the same place?

You're an idiot.

Simple logistics, man.
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Right on the button.
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