"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think I overgamed myself?

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HB8 initiates on Tinder. Her profile states she is 5'9 and likes her men to tower over her. I am 5'11. Anticipating her to ask my height at some stage I decide to pre-emptively disqualify her.

Her: How's your weekend going?
Me: Hey. What you up to?
Her: JUst a quiet one. Few dinners. You?
Me: You seem pretty cool but I'm not going to waste either of our time. I see you are 5'9 and in heels you would be around my height and I like to be taller than my date.
Her: Thanks for letting me know. Yes I like taller men.

Now it's one thing lying about my profession but should I lie about my height?
Or should I just not have mentioned it?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What the women don't know won't hurt them, the stupid things guys say will hurt them.
 
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:-) said:
HB8 initiates on Tinder. Her profile states she is 5'9 and likes her men to tower over her. I am 5'11. Anticipating her to ask my height at some stage I decide to pre-emptively disqualify her.

Her: How's your weekend going?
Me: Hey. What you up to?
Her: JUst a quiet one. Few dinners. You?
Me: You seem pretty cool but I'm not going to waste either of our time. I see you are 5'9 and in heels you would be around my height and I like to be taller than my date.
Her: Thanks for letting me know. Yes I like taller men.

Now it's one thing lying about my profession but should I lie about my height?
Or should I just not have mentioned it?
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I make a KILLING off tinder. I am 5'8" and could give a fvk if a woman is taller then me. All the same laying down right? :up:

I would not of even said anything. If she asked you could easily add an inch or two. If your 5"11 just say your 6 foot. When you meet up she is not going to say anything.
 
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That seemed rather harsh. I've got a friend and there's this one thing I've always admired about how he handles people. No matter what he says or what game he plays, he ALWAYS leaves the door open and you slammed them shut. Hard. I doubt that was your intent.
 
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Sounds like self-sabotage. If Bradley Cooper was 5'11" she'd change her tune or just wear flats on their dates.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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