"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think I over-dj'd my girlfriend

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Enjin 7

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basically, I think I over-dj'd her.

like to the point where it is causing problems.

she cries when I am not around. she cries before I leave. she constantly thinks about me, to the point where she is sad that I am not there... and that causes problems.

she is an amazing girl, and she has never felt like this before. I feel like I have done something harmful to her by dj'ing the **** out of her, all of the time... to the point where I guess the attraction level is... TOO high?

what to do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yo i gotta do the opposite

how the hell u get ur girl to do that? lol
i make it seem that i care for her but i dont act needy,
she phones me most of the time
but i think i act like i care about her too much (im a nice guy thats all)

but i made it aware to her that i dont take **** either

sorry for off topic
 
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Wiesman44 said:
Make it seem like you care for her. That'll help.
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that might be one aspect of it. I'm her first love. and as part of the dj thing whatever, I tell her how much I care for her occasionally, and always after she orgasms, which intensifies the effect.

I think that actually may be a source of her separation anxiety...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she cries when I am not around. she cries before I leave. she constantly thinks about me, to the point where she is sad that I am not there... and that causes problems.
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Wow dude. Your crazy. (In a good way. Not a serial stalking clown kind of way.^_^) How did you do that? I think if you have built this much of a connection with her then you could share what you did. To a certain point that is.

If you want to turn it down a bit. You could always lay off the techniques, and if that dosen't work you may have to pull out the big guns and go wuss on her.(AFC) That or this girl is a little crazy. (Like the stalking clown this time.) Just whatever you did, don't overdue it to your next girl.
 
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Well, then your DJin her wrong... She is not respecting your space and time and that could be a result of you not educating her about it. All you are doing is making her crave your company...
 
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Yeah you cant "over dj" a girl....You must be doing something wrong in your approach or your girl is a tad crazy.
 
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