"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think i messed up :/

crazyman11

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Alright, so i was talking with a girl, and things were going along nicely. Then came her birthday, i gave her a card with a Hershey's kiss(I think it was too much, because we were talking for like 2 weeks). She hasn't talked to me since, and we used to talk like every day. She barely even gives me a hi. So what should i do? Just play along, or talk to her? Or something else?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ignore her. find someone else and if she sees you flirting with some other girl, she'll come back to you
 

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Yea, that's what i was thinking of doing. But then i was thinking that it could just make everything worse, but iono
 

Bvbidd

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It will do the opposite of making it worse.
 

crazyman11

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Actually, yeah. Now that i think of it, i'm gonna try something like that. I'll keep you guys updated if you want it
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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hahah wow what a fvcking b!tch... you give her a birthday card and she ignores you... I'd NEXT, I hate the ones like that who can't take that type of kindness.
 

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You could start using kino as well.

Start using kino on other girls, except the one you like.
 

crazyman11

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Well, i never really used kino on her, because she gets really shy around me. Hehe, i guess i have that effect on girls :D. But anyway, she is usually pretty hyper around her friends, but around me she gets all quiet and stuff. I never really initiated kino on her
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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crazyman11 said:
Well, i never really used kino on her, because she gets really shy around me. Hehe, i guess i have that effect on girls :D. But anyway, she is usually pretty hyper around her friends, but around me she gets all quiet and stuff. I never really initiated kino on her
kino her, open her up to you
 

crazyman11

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Yea, i think i'm gonna do that. Next week, i'll just give her a hug (Her friend is telling me to just do that, even if she's with her friends). You guys think that should work? Oh, and one more thing, should i just talk to her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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duuude.. dont talk about her to her friends. i promise you they'll tell her...if not straight up then when intoxicated. and that means its over. I agree with allthe guys that have said to game some other girls.

I think wahts happened is that she only likedd you as a friend and when you gave her the hershey/card she realized you really acutally wanted to bang her. and now she doesnt want to lead you on and thus she doesnt talk to you
 

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Well, she started talking to me, and it is clear that she has a crush on me. Yea, i didn't initiate the convo, she did. So i guess that means i passed her test? Oh, i don't talk to her close friends, i talk to her friends that don't really talk to her that much. So, you guys think i should just go for a hug when i see her at school, and just walk away(this would be in the morning, and she'll most likely be with a couple friends)?

Oh, and i am not at the point where i only talk to her. I still flirt with other girls, but she is my main goal, she has it all(she's cute, smart, funny, there isn't anything i don't like about her)
 
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