"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think i messed up :/

crazyman11

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Alright, so i was talking with a girl, and things were going along nicely. Then came her birthday, i gave her a card with a Hershey's kiss(I think it was too much, because we were talking for like 2 weeks). She hasn't talked to me since, and we used to talk like every day. She barely even gives me a hi. So what should i do? Just play along, or talk to her? Or something else?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ignore her. find someone else and if she sees you flirting with some other girl, she'll come back to you
 

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Yea, that's what i was thinking of doing. But then i was thinking that it could just make everything worse, but iono
 

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It will do the opposite of making it worse.
 

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Actually, yeah. Now that i think of it, i'm gonna try something like that. I'll keep you guys updated if you want it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hahah wow what a fvcking b!tch... you give her a birthday card and she ignores you... I'd NEXT, I hate the ones like that who can't take that type of kindness.
 

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You could start using kino as well.

Start using kino on other girls, except the one you like.
 

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Well, i never really used kino on her, because she gets really shy around me. Hehe, i guess i have that effect on girls :D. But anyway, she is usually pretty hyper around her friends, but around me she gets all quiet and stuff. I never really initiated kino on her
 

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crazyman11 said:
Well, i never really used kino on her, because she gets really shy around me. Hehe, i guess i have that effect on girls :D. But anyway, she is usually pretty hyper around her friends, but around me she gets all quiet and stuff. I never really initiated kino on her
kino her, open her up to you
 

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Yea, i think i'm gonna do that. Next week, i'll just give her a hug (Her friend is telling me to just do that, even if she's with her friends). You guys think that should work? Oh, and one more thing, should i just talk to her?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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duuude.. dont talk about her to her friends. i promise you they'll tell her...if not straight up then when intoxicated. and that means its over. I agree with allthe guys that have said to game some other girls.

I think wahts happened is that she only likedd you as a friend and when you gave her the hershey/card she realized you really acutally wanted to bang her. and now she doesnt want to lead you on and thus she doesnt talk to you
 

crazyman11

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Well, she started talking to me, and it is clear that she has a crush on me. Yea, i didn't initiate the convo, she did. So i guess that means i passed her test? Oh, i don't talk to her close friends, i talk to her friends that don't really talk to her that much. So, you guys think i should just go for a hug when i see her at school, and just walk away(this would be in the morning, and she'll most likely be with a couple friends)?

Oh, and i am not at the point where i only talk to her. I still flirt with other girls, but she is my main goal, she has it all(she's cute, smart, funny, there isn't anything i don't like about her)
 
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