"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"I THINK I love you" girl

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I have this girl that I met through myspace(haha haters) but I've been talking to her on aim for the past 2 days and she seems to be very very clingy. She told me she loves me on aim and on the phone etc. blablabla more then I've ever heard from a girl before going out on a 1st date. I know I can easily hit it with some good kino but she seems like one of those "crazy girls that stalk you kinda deal." She invited(for tonight) me over to her place to watch a movie...."basically fcuk me." (other ppls live there but better then my place with my folks.)

Now I told her I'm not really interested in a GF(NO-LTR) and asked her what she was looking for and she said "a BF."

Stat-Sheet
Shes 18. 8.0
I'm 19.

Basically, all I'm asking is what would you do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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naes

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I would chill with her in a public place first. Gotta be careful, she sounds like a psycho. You can't know a person through aim or myspace, you need to meet her first before you go into her house. Who knows, she could kill you in her basement and no one would know where you went.:D
 
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WOAH!

Back off, and run away.

2 days? Online? Love you? BF? Clingy?
Aieeeeeeeeeeeeee!
 
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She loves you before you even met in person? Are you sure you even wat to meet her? The lure of easy sex is very tempting...but what happens after? She proposes marriage and starts talking about what to name your kids?...That she might now be pregnant with because she popped a hole in the condom?????

I'm sorry! People that say on the first date (or before) "I love you" and "Wow! You are SO special to me!" are nut cases, pure and simple. Be very careful with this one if you decide to meet her off-line. I smell trouble...
 
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LA_Chico

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"I Think I love you, then what am I so afraid of" bro
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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meet her first then analyze her personality...if its fine then ill take my chances with her
 
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