Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"I THINK I love you" girl

kryminal

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I have this girl that I met through myspace(haha haters) but I've been talking to her on aim for the past 2 days and she seems to be very very clingy. She told me she loves me on aim and on the phone etc. blablabla more then I've ever heard from a girl before going out on a 1st date. I know I can easily hit it with some good kino but she seems like one of those "crazy girls that stalk you kinda deal." She invited(for tonight) me over to her place to watch a movie...."basically fcuk me." (other ppls live there but better then my place with my folks.)

Now I told her I'm not really interested in a GF(NO-LTR) and asked her what she was looking for and she said "a BF."

Stat-Sheet
Shes 18. 8.0
I'm 19.

Basically, all I'm asking is what would you do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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naes

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I would chill with her in a public place first. Gotta be careful, she sounds like a psycho. You can't know a person through aim or myspace, you need to meet her first before you go into her house. Who knows, she could kill you in her basement and no one would know where you went.:D
 

MrS

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WOAH!

Back off, and run away.

2 days? Online? Love you? BF? Clingy?
Aieeeeeeeeeeeeee!
 

WaterTiger

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She loves you before you even met in person? Are you sure you even wat to meet her? The lure of easy sex is very tempting...but what happens after? She proposes marriage and starts talking about what to name your kids?...That she might now be pregnant with because she popped a hole in the condom?????

I'm sorry! People that say on the first date (or before) "I love you" and "Wow! You are SO special to me!" are nut cases, pure and simple. Be very careful with this one if you decide to meet her off-line. I smell trouble...
 

LA_Chico

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Los Angeles baby!
"I Think I love you, then what am I so afraid of" bro
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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gherald

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meet her first then analyze her personality...if its fine then ill take my chances with her
 
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