"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"I THINK I love you" girl

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I have this girl that I met through myspace(haha haters) but I've been talking to her on aim for the past 2 days and she seems to be very very clingy. She told me she loves me on aim and on the phone etc. blablabla more then I've ever heard from a girl before going out on a 1st date. I know I can easily hit it with some good kino but she seems like one of those "crazy girls that stalk you kinda deal." She invited(for tonight) me over to her place to watch a movie...."basically fcuk me." (other ppls live there but better then my place with my folks.)

Now I told her I'm not really interested in a GF(NO-LTR) and asked her what she was looking for and she said "a BF."

Stat-Sheet
Shes 18. 8.0
I'm 19.

Basically, all I'm asking is what would you do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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naes

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I would chill with her in a public place first. Gotta be careful, she sounds like a psycho. You can't know a person through aim or myspace, you need to meet her first before you go into her house. Who knows, she could kill you in her basement and no one would know where you went.:D
 
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MrS

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WOAH!

Back off, and run away.

2 days? Online? Love you? BF? Clingy?
Aieeeeeeeeeeeeee!
 
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She loves you before you even met in person? Are you sure you even wat to meet her? The lure of easy sex is very tempting...but what happens after? She proposes marriage and starts talking about what to name your kids?...That she might now be pregnant with because she popped a hole in the condom?????

I'm sorry! People that say on the first date (or before) "I love you" and "Wow! You are SO special to me!" are nut cases, pure and simple. Be very careful with this one if you decide to meet her off-line. I smell trouble...
 
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LA_Chico

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"I Think I love you, then what am I so afraid of" bro
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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meet her first then analyze her personality...if its fine then ill take my chances with her
 
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