"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think I just spoke to a tranny that was a customer service agent

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Xe was helping me out on something a colleague of xers needed from me, and as this colleague and I had an E-mail conversation going on, I wanted to tell that colleague that the tranny would be sending the colleague some files - and in the text, I wanted to use a pronoun to refer to the tranny ... but I didn't know which one to use (or whether the ambiguous "xe" would even be understood). so I just structured the sentence to not use any pronouns, LOL.

Now, I say tranny, but xe sounded like an effeminate man that was trying to speak in an upper register the way that trannies do. Who knows, maybe xe was a cis-female? And I have been noticing more & more customer reps that sounds like this guy gal. :eek: :rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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And I have been noticing more & more customer reps that sounds like this guy gal. :eek: :rolleyes:
It's a strange world we live in. I've been noticing more and werewolves patronizing Trader Vics, each time I stop by. And their hair is inevitably perfect
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Call them whatever they sound like to your gut feeling.
 

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It's a strange world we live in. I've been noticing more and werewolves patronizing Trader Vics, each time I stop by. And their hair is inevitably perfect
NOW THAT YOU MENTION IT...I was eating a big dish of beef chow mein and listening to a story about a little old lady that got mutilated late last night, so weird.
 

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NOW THAT YOU MENTION IT...I was eating a big dish of beef chow mein and listening to a story about a little old lady that got mutilated late last night, so weird.
Sadly, unless Charles plans to get a sex change anytime soon, we won't see Lon Chaney or Jr walking with The Queen :cry::mad:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Now, I say tranny, but xe sounded like an effeminate man that was trying to speak in an upper register the way that trannies do. Who knows, maybe xe was a cis-female? And I have been noticing more & more customer reps that sounds like this guy gal. :eek: :rolleyes:
It's not like they're rare these days.
 

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It's not like they're rare these days.
A vanishingly small portion of our species is genuinely trans. The sort of gender bending that was hip in the sensitive 70s


Has just made something of a return*. Only difference today: It's easier than ever to carry the fad to it's logical(Albeit irrational)extent, by surgically altering one's body


*Quote: "In 1970s disco fashion, hippie looks got jazzed up, and the square got funky. John Travolta's white three-piece suit from Saturday Night Fever was a disco spin on very traditional men's attire. Both genders seemed to take style tips from each other. Men could primp and tend to their hair without seeming unmasculine, while women sought a stylish comfortability and freedom better for dancing), epitomized by the Diane Von Furstenburg wrap dress. And if you didn't want to stick to one gender, that was ok too -- gender-bending and androgyny were always in style at the Mecca of disco, New York City's Studio 54"
 

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A vanishingly small portion of our species is genuinely trans. The sort of gender bending that was hip in the sensitive 70s
Not sure what you mean by "genuinely", but you can see people cross dressing in some form or other about every time you go out these days. And by go out I mean go run errands, do some grocery shopping, etc.
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would have said he. Always use your intuition. If a man happens to really sound like a woman, I'll call them she cause I wouldnt be none the wiser, thus respect they managed to fool me. But most of them cannot voice pass. If anything, women tend to sound like a man sometimes rather than the other way around.
 
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