"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think I just placed my balls in a vise... Im whipped...

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opentoadvice

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My fellow guys, I need your help. I haven't been to this forum recently and I've been making fantastic progress with women. So fantastic (or maybe not so fantastic) that I've met this really good looking girl, yet shes pretty much got me whipped... and I HATE IT... but I can't get over her! Its driving me crazy, first it all started in a way that I wanted to f--- her, now its progressed on to bullsh--. Geeze I didn't even get the goods yet! What should I do fellas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LikRetsam

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Retreat and reorganize your campaign for in 2 weeks. Discontinue contact.

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blienk

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Don't ignore her, but don't placate her the way you are right now. Be more C+F and don't worry about how she reacts to it. Make her earn the right to spend time with you. I'm sure there's something in the Bible about this.
 
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Hit Dat Sht

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Hehe I like LikRetsam's reply... though that will just make her think you put the FRUSTRATED in AFC and not care if you leave her. Knock her off her pedestal and be a man. Be opinioned, be ****y and don't apologize for your testosterone. Read the friggen DJBible for Christ's sake... well, for your sake at least.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Porky

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Yeah, give more information, but right now I'm thinking you should act like an ass.hole to her.
 
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Man don't give in and go sour. Try to rely on your man power

Don't take this crap from her.
 
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Originally posted by opentoadvice
What should I do fellas?
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I think its time to say buh-bye to oneitis. Ignore her and she'll get pissed off, which is good. Best of all, flirt with other girls.

If all else fails, just say NEXT!
 
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