"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think I just placed my balls in a vise... Im whipped...

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opentoadvice

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My fellow guys, I need your help. I haven't been to this forum recently and I've been making fantastic progress with women. So fantastic (or maybe not so fantastic) that I've met this really good looking girl, yet shes pretty much got me whipped... and I HATE IT... but I can't get over her! Its driving me crazy, first it all started in a way that I wanted to f--- her, now its progressed on to bullsh--. Geeze I didn't even get the goods yet! What should I do fellas?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LikRetsam

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Retreat and reorganize your campaign for in 2 weeks. Discontinue contact.

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Don't ignore her, but don't placate her the way you are right now. Be more C+F and don't worry about how she reacts to it. Make her earn the right to spend time with you. I'm sure there's something in the Bible about this.
 
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Hit Dat Sht

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Hehe I like LikRetsam's reply... though that will just make her think you put the FRUSTRATED in AFC and not care if you leave her. Knock her off her pedestal and be a man. Be opinioned, be ****y and don't apologize for your testosterone. Read the friggen DJBible for Christ's sake... well, for your sake at least.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Porky

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Yeah, give more information, but right now I'm thinking you should act like an ass.hole to her.
 
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Man don't give in and go sour. Try to rely on your man power

Don't take this crap from her.
 
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Originally posted by opentoadvice
What should I do fellas?
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I think its time to say buh-bye to oneitis. Ignore her and she'll get pissed off, which is good. Best of all, flirt with other girls.

If all else fails, just say NEXT!
 
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