Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I think I just got dumped

IsiMan84

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Well good work, at least you got out of that one intact. And Slick101 what makes it so hard for you to walk away from your own relationship? Don't tell me you live with her or have a kid or something.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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IsiMan84 said:
Well good work, at least you got out of that one intact. And Slick101 what makes it so hard for you to walk away from your own relationship? Don't tell me you live with her or have a kid or something.
Its all about the moment I had with her and the memories.... I like to have alot of adventurous kind of fun with my girls and romantic talks and in depth deep rapport....

Its all about the great moments I had with her and her personality that keeps me invested.,... I just hate being heart broken.... and its hard for me to think that If I let her go,...... I will never be able to get her back


I guess I just have to MAN UP and do it.....
 

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Well if you keep treating it that way you'll never get over anything in your life. Sometimes the best thing to do is to cut your losses and move on. Because you can't move forward if you're always looking back...
 
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