"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think I just got dumped

IsiMan84

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Well good work, at least you got out of that one intact. And Slick101 what makes it so hard for you to walk away from your own relationship? Don't tell me you live with her or have a kid or something.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Slick101

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IsiMan84 said:
Well good work, at least you got out of that one intact. And Slick101 what makes it so hard for you to walk away from your own relationship? Don't tell me you live with her or have a kid or something.
Its all about the moment I had with her and the memories.... I like to have alot of adventurous kind of fun with my girls and romantic talks and in depth deep rapport....

Its all about the great moments I had with her and her personality that keeps me invested.,... I just hate being heart broken.... and its hard for me to think that If I let her go,...... I will never be able to get her back


I guess I just have to MAN UP and do it.....
 

IsiMan84

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Well if you keep treating it that way you'll never get over anything in your life. Sometimes the best thing to do is to cut your losses and move on. Because you can't move forward if you're always looking back...
 
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