"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i think i hit a plateau

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I have 2 plates...sub par, Under 7s...who hit me up regularly for hang outs, dinner, etc. but they both know that its gonna be sexing....and I flirt and banter with the 7s I know...and occasionally have great interactions with 8-9s during approaches.

I can't seem to get the 7s to be all over me like the sub par chicks...etc etc...

I feel like I'm lifting heavy weights but can't get pass that line.
so I plan on updating my clothes.. Maybe ...
any thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My 2 freaks are under 23.... My last day game approach was 18 and got to hang out and Kino right off the bat but you know she's super young so idk about it. the 7s I know are from 32 to 42. And the hot ones i approach i don't get that far.

i personally haven't aged much...so my age varies depending on the girl. I look mixed so they can't tell exactly how old i am. Lets say I'm 25... But age is just a number.

i did notice that when i dress nice, like Nordstrom style clothes, ladies will smile at me and offer me a seat on the bus or train. Like they prepare themselves for me i guess. And I'm usually not thinking and just walk pass. Then i remember we are all here to procreate and i kick myself. So i know dress plays a big part, at least until you get past the stranger phase.

interestingly enough, when I'm out jogging in my sweats and i stop to talk to a solid model wannabe, they give me a chance. And its gray and black sweats.. Maybe its because I'm happy and full of endorphins
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i totally feel this plateau. The 7s are professional grade women. Career gals. And they know i have two years left to finish my degree so they could be prejudices on that side. Which if that is the case, then more rapport needs to be done. Or convey more status or happiness on my part because a degree doesn't automatically equal $$$$.
 
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