"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i think i hit a plateau

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I have 2 plates...sub par, Under 7s...who hit me up regularly for hang outs, dinner, etc. but they both know that its gonna be sexing....and I flirt and banter with the 7s I know...and occasionally have great interactions with 8-9s during approaches.

I can't seem to get the 7s to be all over me like the sub par chicks...etc etc...

I feel like I'm lifting heavy weights but can't get pass that line.
so I plan on updating my clothes.. Maybe ...
any thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My 2 freaks are under 23.... My last day game approach was 18 and got to hang out and Kino right off the bat but you know she's super young so idk about it. the 7s I know are from 32 to 42. And the hot ones i approach i don't get that far.

i personally haven't aged much...so my age varies depending on the girl. I look mixed so they can't tell exactly how old i am. Lets say I'm 25... But age is just a number.

i did notice that when i dress nice, like Nordstrom style clothes, ladies will smile at me and offer me a seat on the bus or train. Like they prepare themselves for me i guess. And I'm usually not thinking and just walk pass. Then i remember we are all here to procreate and i kick myself. So i know dress plays a big part, at least until you get past the stranger phase.

interestingly enough, when I'm out jogging in my sweats and i stop to talk to a solid model wannabe, they give me a chance. And its gray and black sweats.. Maybe its because I'm happy and full of endorphins
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i totally feel this plateau. The 7s are professional grade women. Career gals. And they know i have two years left to finish my degree so they could be prejudices on that side. Which if that is the case, then more rapport needs to be done. Or convey more status or happiness on my part because a degree doesn't automatically equal $$$$.
 
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