"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I think I have always been very insecure....
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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A. consider your inner circle of people mothers, fathers, ect. first girlfriend ect.... someone may be blackballing you.
2. you're insecure in your looks.
A. Buy yourself nice things to elevate yourself.
Basically you have to stop being a lazy bastard and do some work.
Fix the problem..
Do not lie to yourself on what the problem is... just ****ing fix it, get even with those holding you down, go all out, I dont mean in a half-ass way.
Make your money, work your looks and be completely honest on what suits you guy.
the rest is easy.
****, infact its all easy to me now i've hooked up w/ 28 girls and have 3 in process and i mean that ever so litterally as not even 2 ghours ago I had a lil cutie blowing up my phone (i just got her # today) i will ignore her and make her want me badly.... but I have felt hurt plenty in my life..
the sweeter the juice.
consider your agony hard discipline.
ima str8 up pimp
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dont take advice from clowns here seriously... you know whats real.. even me too much.
a man must find his own way build his own corporation... *****es love power.
dudes on this site will tell you anything to make themselves feel smug and ****...
you do you... do you.
There is no such thing as being completely 100% happy with yourself no matter who you are.
Don't focus on fixing every little thing. Until you are perfect you will always have insecurities.
Just focus on improving as much as you can and doing the best you can with what you have.
Almost all physical insecurities can be conquered with a new wardrobe, working out and dieting, tanning, teeth whitening, etc.
The inner insecurities are different. They take a lot of pain of effort to conquer. If the insecurity is hindering your life then eventually you have to make the choice of accepting yourself and all of your flaws or be miserable and waste your life.
Years ago my very first gf cheated on me with 3 guys in one night. I didn't find out for almost a month later. Now with every gf I have I over analyze everything as her cheating. I do my best to hide it but sometimes it takes control and really hurts me. I was with one gf and she called me and canceled seeing me because she was meeting a "friend". I freaked out and went ape sh!t on her for it. Turns out it was her sister's bf who wanted her to help him pick out an engagement ring for her sister. Even after that I still look for and interpret everything a girl does as possible cheating.
Show me someone who wouldn't change a single thing about themselves and I will show you a liar.
Improve yourself in every way possible and you will eventually be happy. How long that takes I have no clue because I'm working on doing the same thing.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It is mostly inner insecurities. Mental things. I mean seriously,I'm slowly becoming the guy who stills lives in the basement,well,somewhat. Sometimes,I am just unsocial,or I feel Idk,unsure around women. Some videos I found like the one posted above,has got me thinking.