"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I think I have always been very insecure....
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ima str8 up pimp
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A. consider your inner circle of people mothers, fathers, ect. first girlfriend ect.... someone may be blackballing you.
2. you're insecure in your looks.
A. Buy yourself nice things to elevate yourself.
Basically you have to stop being a lazy bastard and do some work.
Fix the problem..
Do not lie to yourself on what the problem is... just ****ing fix it, get even with those holding you down, go all out, I dont mean in a half-ass way.
Make your money, work your looks and be completely honest on what suits you guy.
the rest is easy.
****, infact its all easy to me now i've hooked up w/ 28 girls and have 3 in process and i mean that ever so litterally as not even 2 ghours ago I had a lil cutie blowing up my phone (i just got her # today) i will ignore her and make her want me badly.... but I have felt hurt plenty in my life..
the sweeter the juice.
consider your agony hard discipline.
ima str8 up pimp
Banned
dont take advice from clowns here seriously... you know whats real.. even me too much.
a man must find his own way build his own corporation... *****es love power.
dudes on this site will tell you anything to make themselves feel smug and ****...
you do you... do you.
There is no such thing as being completely 100% happy with yourself no matter who you are.
Don't focus on fixing every little thing. Until you are perfect you will always have insecurities.
Just focus on improving as much as you can and doing the best you can with what you have.
Almost all physical insecurities can be conquered with a new wardrobe, working out and dieting, tanning, teeth whitening, etc.
The inner insecurities are different. They take a lot of pain of effort to conquer. If the insecurity is hindering your life then eventually you have to make the choice of accepting yourself and all of your flaws or be miserable and waste your life.
Years ago my very first gf cheated on me with 3 guys in one night. I didn't find out for almost a month later. Now with every gf I have I over analyze everything as her cheating. I do my best to hide it but sometimes it takes control and really hurts me. I was with one gf and she called me and canceled seeing me because she was meeting a "friend". I freaked out and went ape sh!t on her for it. Turns out it was her sister's bf who wanted her to help him pick out an engagement ring for her sister. Even after that I still look for and interpret everything a girl does as possible cheating.
Show me someone who wouldn't change a single thing about themselves and I will show you a liar.
Improve yourself in every way possible and you will eventually be happy. How long that takes I have no clue because I'm working on doing the same thing.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It is mostly inner insecurities. Mental things. I mean seriously,I'm slowly becoming the guy who stills lives in the basement,well,somewhat. Sometimes,I am just unsocial,or I feel Idk,unsure around women. Some videos I found like the one posted above,has got me thinking.