“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think I have always been very insecure....

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In ways I do and don't realize. I can't explain it now. I will have to think more later...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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1. somebody told you you couldnt be a man.
A. consider your inner circle of people mothers, fathers, ect. first girlfriend ect.... someone may be blackballing you.

2. you're insecure in your looks.
A. Buy yourself nice things to elevate yourself.


Basically you have to stop being a lazy bastard and do some work.

Fix the problem..

Do not lie to yourself on what the problem is... just ****ing fix it, get even with those holding you down, go all out, I dont mean in a half-ass way.

Make your money, work your looks and be completely honest on what suits you guy.

the rest is easy.

****, infact its all easy to me now i've hooked up w/ 28 girls and have 3 in process and i mean that ever so litterally as not even 2 ghours ago I had a lil cutie blowing up my phone (i just got her # today) i will ignore her and make her want me badly.... but I have felt hurt plenty in my life..

the sweeter the juice.

consider your agony hard discipline.
 
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lastly...

dont take advice from clowns here seriously... you know whats real.. even me too much.

a man must find his own way build his own corporation... *****es love power.

dudes on this site will tell you anything to make themselves feel smug and ****...

you do you... do you.
 

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That's the thing,I think I may have problems with telling myself I am a man or not. I haven't fixed anything,looks,education,slowly working on that. I can be nervous/shy,esp around very beuatiful women. I have always been called weird,I hate it. I have acted weird,but I have always looked at things differently from everyone else. Also,I know this is going to sound odd,but I am not looking to hook up with and sleep with everything that moves. I just want to find a nice girl and start a family,i.e someone who isn't a total slut,sounds hard,i know,and someone who is honest and decent and shares the same things I do....
 

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Everyone is insecure and it's nothing to be ashamed of.

There is no such thing as being completely 100% happy with yourself no matter who you are.

Don't focus on fixing every little thing. Until you are perfect you will always have insecurities.

Just focus on improving as much as you can and doing the best you can with what you have.

Almost all physical insecurities can be conquered with a new wardrobe, working out and dieting, tanning, teeth whitening, etc.

The inner insecurities are different. They take a lot of pain of effort to conquer. If the insecurity is hindering your life then eventually you have to make the choice of accepting yourself and all of your flaws or be miserable and waste your life.

Years ago my very first gf cheated on me with 3 guys in one night. I didn't find out for almost a month later. Now with every gf I have I over analyze everything as her cheating. I do my best to hide it but sometimes it takes control and really hurts me. I was with one gf and she called me and canceled seeing me because she was meeting a "friend". I freaked out and went ape sh!t on her for it. Turns out it was her sister's bf who wanted her to help him pick out an engagement ring for her sister. Even after that I still look for and interpret everything a girl does as possible cheating.

Show me someone who wouldn't change a single thing about themselves and I will show you a liar.

Improve yourself in every way possible and you will eventually be happy. How long that takes I have no clue because I'm working on doing the same thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Im somewhat the opposite,I have little experience,I havent been with someone in 2 years,This is a problem that I have yet to conquer,it is hindering me. I think I suffer from some of the problems described in the videos here by this guy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QMhi8DAG2lA

It is mostly inner insecurities. Mental things. I mean seriously,I'm slowly becoming the guy who stills lives in the basement,well,somewhat. Sometimes,I am just unsocial,or I feel Idk,unsure around women. Some videos I found like the one posted above,has got me thinking.
 
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