"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think I have a disorder.

Konada

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I never really took notice of what I was doing to myself until i stumbled across this page: http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dermatillomania

When I read it, I had a shocking realization that I may indeed have this disorder. It started when I was probably 9 or so. A blister on my thumb soon became an obssession for me to pick it. Over the years I am basically picking the skin off my whole right thumb. However I've stopped picking my thumb and it has healed since then.

But now, I'm moved on to picking the skin off adjacent to my finger nails. Whenever I get an episode of this skin picking frenzy, I always feel a deep 'itch' between the skin and the side of the nail and start picking. It usually never stops until I feel that the surface is 'smooth enough' or there is no skin connecting to my nail. This happens on both my hands, every finger.

Anyone has any idea or experiences on this matter. I feel that desperately I need help to overcome this habit of mine.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kenny Powers

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yeah definitely turn to a site about picking up women for advice on an obscure medical condition.

See a Doctor and do more research on the condition - the internet must have better places than here to learn about this.
 

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yeah I'd like to be able to solve your problems with a cute paragraph about 'Confidence' and 'Being Alpha' but that won't work.

I'm with Kenny on this one, definitely see a Doctor, totally justified in seeing a doctor about this.

In fact have the 'Confidence' to book your appointment TODAY.
 

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Hey I am a doctor , well a resident ^^

it definitely sounds like you have this disorder, usually the most effective treatment for these kind of disorders is cognitive behavior therapy possibly in combination with medication - as there's obsessive compulsive/anxiety opponent.

a psychiatrist will get you the proper help you need, if you cannot directly schedule one you may need to go through your primary care doctor first.
 

Groovy

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I don't understand what "picking skin" is. You just pinch yourself over and over?

Let me ask u this: do u have insomnia\bad sleep, frequent urination, buzzing ears, attention deficit disorder, low confidence, etc... Name some other things bro! Would like to try to help u out on this. Good luck in the meanwhile.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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