"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think I have a disorder.

Konada

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I never really took notice of what I was doing to myself until i stumbled across this page: http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dermatillomania

When I read it, I had a shocking realization that I may indeed have this disorder. It started when I was probably 9 or so. A blister on my thumb soon became an obssession for me to pick it. Over the years I am basically picking the skin off my whole right thumb. However I've stopped picking my thumb and it has healed since then.

But now, I'm moved on to picking the skin off adjacent to my finger nails. Whenever I get an episode of this skin picking frenzy, I always feel a deep 'itch' between the skin and the side of the nail and start picking. It usually never stops until I feel that the surface is 'smooth enough' or there is no skin connecting to my nail. This happens on both my hands, every finger.

Anyone has any idea or experiences on this matter. I feel that desperately I need help to overcome this habit of mine.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Kenny Powers

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yeah definitely turn to a site about picking up women for advice on an obscure medical condition.

See a Doctor and do more research on the condition - the internet must have better places than here to learn about this.
 

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yeah I'd like to be able to solve your problems with a cute paragraph about 'Confidence' and 'Being Alpha' but that won't work.

I'm with Kenny on this one, definitely see a Doctor, totally justified in seeing a doctor about this.

In fact have the 'Confidence' to book your appointment TODAY.
 

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Hey I am a doctor , well a resident ^^

it definitely sounds like you have this disorder, usually the most effective treatment for these kind of disorders is cognitive behavior therapy possibly in combination with medication - as there's obsessive compulsive/anxiety opponent.

a psychiatrist will get you the proper help you need, if you cannot directly schedule one you may need to go through your primary care doctor first.
 

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I don't understand what "picking skin" is. You just pinch yourself over and over?

Let me ask u this: do u have insomnia\bad sleep, frequent urination, buzzing ears, attention deficit disorder, low confidence, etc... Name some other things bro! Would like to try to help u out on this. Good luck in the meanwhile.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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