"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think i finally understand

blackbelt2k

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So last night as i was driving home from the gym, i had a revealation. I finally understand, or at least think i do. I just don't give a shiet anymore about what people say or think, especially women. I've noticed myself getting caught looking, to which i usually smile, and if they dont return my smile, i keep looking until im done taking in everything i want. I've also noticed in my conversations with women, I listen and if i don't have anything to relate to what they are saying, i just ask about another topic, cut them off, and ask about something else. Sometimes if they say something witty, i just pause until i have something better to say back. My cold approcaches still suck a$$, but when i do talk to women, i'm not askin for their approval instead im basicly asking what they can do for me. It pisses some off, it makes some offer me things. I hope this is the right path, cause it sure feels good doing things how i want, when i want.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes, he has. However, don't take your confidence to the extreme to arrogance. This can happen in the beginning as you emerge and eyes open.
 

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blackbelt2k said:
So last night as i was driving home from the gym
Pook must be right on the whole working out/testosterone/don't give a f*ck thing.
 

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This goes back to being a little bit selfish which girls love to hate in a guy. It may have some evolutionary meaning in that our male ancestors, of those who were more selfish, provided more resources for the female.

Today's a different world though, no need to be as selfish as there is plenty to conquer and share, but still doesn't supress our more primitive roots for acquiring resources and not sharing them for fear of losing everything.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think Wayne "Juggler"'s method is the best for opening and keeping conversations which are especially necessary skills in cold approaches.
But, yeah, BB, welcome to the real world.
Uniting your Dream with Day.

Manifesting your Destiny.

Living Your Life, not someone else's.

Living up to YOUR Standard's, not someone Else's.

Answering to YOUR Conscious, NOT someone Else's.
 

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Yeah I get these "revelations" but then I often lose the correct vision/attitude.
 
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