"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think i finally understand

blackbelt2k

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So last night as i was driving home from the gym, i had a revealation. I finally understand, or at least think i do. I just don't give a shiet anymore about what people say or think, especially women. I've noticed myself getting caught looking, to which i usually smile, and if they dont return my smile, i keep looking until im done taking in everything i want. I've also noticed in my conversations with women, I listen and if i don't have anything to relate to what they are saying, i just ask about another topic, cut them off, and ask about something else. Sometimes if they say something witty, i just pause until i have something better to say back. My cold approcaches still suck a$$, but when i do talk to women, i'm not askin for their approval instead im basicly asking what they can do for me. It pisses some off, it makes some offer me things. I hope this is the right path, cause it sure feels good doing things how i want, when i want.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yes, he has. However, don't take your confidence to the extreme to arrogance. This can happen in the beginning as you emerge and eyes open.
 

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blackbelt2k said:
So last night as i was driving home from the gym
Pook must be right on the whole working out/testosterone/don't give a f*ck thing.
 

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This goes back to being a little bit selfish which girls love to hate in a guy. It may have some evolutionary meaning in that our male ancestors, of those who were more selfish, provided more resources for the female.

Today's a different world though, no need to be as selfish as there is plenty to conquer and share, but still doesn't supress our more primitive roots for acquiring resources and not sharing them for fear of losing everything.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think Wayne "Juggler"'s method is the best for opening and keeping conversations which are especially necessary skills in cold approaches.
But, yeah, BB, welcome to the real world.
Uniting your Dream with Day.

Manifesting your Destiny.

Living Your Life, not someone else's.

Living up to YOUR Standard's, not someone Else's.

Answering to YOUR Conscious, NOT someone Else's.
 

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Yeah I get these "revelations" but then I often lose the correct vision/attitude.
 
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