"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think I f****d it up

djjug5

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I've known this chick for a couple of weeks. She's actually a friend of a girl I was trying to hook up with and that didn't work out, so now I've set my sights on her friend. We started playing the text message game, and then talking on the phone and eventually went out a few times. I haven't even kissed this girl yet, but the other night I was drinking and I told her that I love her. (stupid), she told me that she likes me a lot but she doesn't want to be my rebound girl because she knows that I got dumped by my ex a few months earlier.

So, now she doesn't call as much and she doesn't answer my text's most of the time. I think I should say F*** it, but on the other hand I really like this one. SHould I just cut contact for a while and see what happens?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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libre

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Take a break for three weeks (no messages, no calls, nothing), then call her to chat.
 

dannowillbookem

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call and say sorry for your idiotic statements (hey u were drunk...u can get away with it) and then do what the other guy said. lay off for 2 or three weeks.
 

Javelin44

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dont call her to say sorry. lay off for 3 weeks and then call to CHAT. then call again a week after and ask her out one more time and go for kiss.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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