"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think I did alright.

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Theres this track at a school buy my house that I go on sometimes. I walk and run it whenever I feel like it. Today I was on the track minding my own business then I notice this HB8 and her little sister with her. So I just keep to myself and I know its p*ssy but I was a little intimidated on how to talk to her. well later when her and her little sister were sitting in the grass between the track I told both of them hi, how are you? they both told me hi, im good thanks how are you?(hb8 had a nice smile)I also said good. I just chose to keep walking the track

while the 2 of them just sat there. I didnt want to be a creepy guy or something and scare them away.so I went around the track and I told myself if I come around and there not talking ill try to say something to them. so I went around the track and they were both in a deep conversation together, so I decided to wait. about 10 min later I walk by and the HB8 and her sister looked bored so I say...wow you guys look bored? and the hb8 says oh were just resting( giving me a nice big smile.) I just continued to walk..it would

be kinda weird to have sat next to the chick and started talking. well from the way she was dressed she looks like she is at the track alot at around that time. so maybe tommorow I will come at the same time and have a much better conversation with her. and mayber her little sister wont be there this time. so tell me, do you think I did alright in this situation? also I am a beginner.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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you think seeing two hot women that you obviously want to talk to, and they know you are wanting to talk to them (trust me) and leaving without speaking is winning, then this board is full of success stories
 

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nah, sorry man, he's right

There's a chance you could still bang her, tho, if you act more aggressive the next time you see her. But yeah, you screwed up.

Cold approaches are kinda hard, tho...Don't feel too down about it. With a cold approach you never really know what to chat about (because you don't know anything about the girl). Also, imo, it might have been a little awkard to close right in front of her sister. Of course, these are just excuses...and I kinda suck at # closing in general so what do i know
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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johnny_depp said:
Theres this track at a school buy my house that I go on sometimes. I walk and run it whenever I feel like it. Today I was on the track minding my own business then I notice this HB8 and her little sister with her. So I just keep to myself and I know its p*ssy but I was a little intimidated on how to talk to her. well later when her and her little sister were sitting in the grass between the track I told both of them hi, how are you? they both told me hi, im good thanks how are you?(hb8 had a nice smile)I also said good. I just chose to keep walking the track

while the 2 of them just sat there. I didnt want to be a creepy guy or something and scare them away.so I went around the track and I told myself if I come around and there not talking ill try to say something to them. so I went around the track and they were both in a deep conversation together, so I decided to wait. about 10 min later I walk by and the HB8 and her sister looked bored so I say...wow you guys look bored? and the hb8 says oh were just resting( giving me a nice big smile.) I just continued to walk..it would

be kinda weird to have sat next to the chick and started talking. well from the way she was dressed she looks like she is at the track alot at around that time. so maybe tommorow I will come at the same time and have a much better conversation with her. and mayber her little sister wont be there this time. so tell me, do you think I did alright in this situation? also I am a beginner.
"Nice big smile"=talk to me.

She apparently gave you the green light but you dropped the ball.

No worries. Cold approaches are very difficult at first, but get much easier with practice and repitition.

If you see her again and she seems freindly, just lay on some small talk to get some rapport going and ask for her number.
 
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