"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think a dorm's cafe is great place to meet people. You will find a lot of people eating by themselves. And nobody likes to sit by themself right? So today I asked a cute brunette if I could join her. Everything was going so smoothly. Then we started talking about movies. She said she hasn't seen Spider Man 2 yet. I haven't either so I asked her if she wanted to see it. Then she says, "uh, the movie?" and started talking about something else. So did I pop the question too early?

Jason
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Reto

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Sounds like she wasn't that interested if she changed the subject. Maybe the movie. Maybe you.

Either way, the cafe is a great place to meet women. I met tons that way when I was in school... remember, she's no the only woman in the cafe. Sit with a different one tomorrow...
 
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its all about risk vs. reward. the more often you take the risk, the higher your chances of getting a reward are. if you dont take the risk, you'll never even have a chance at the reward.
 
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Originally posted by Recluce
its all about risk vs. reward. the more often you take the risk, the higher your chances of getting a reward are. if you dont take the risk, you'll never even have a chance at the reward.
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Cliche statement but this post wasn't about risking or rewarding.

Jason - dude is this how you make friends? You gotta turn a 180 and change your whole approach. Your answer to your question? NO SH!T you asked early. That's like me coming up to you talking about Star Wars and telling you "Hey Jason, come over to my place I just got that new trilogy dvd" How likely are you to agree on the first hour that I met you?
 
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yeah you asked a little bit too early. Shouldn't waited a bit or got her number instead. Or maybe she thought you were too good to be true. You went up to her asked to join her, that shows confidence right there. She's probably thinking, "whoa a confident and good looking guy is asking me out? There must be a catch." Or maybe she has a boyfriend.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well at least I tried. I was about to back out a the last second and sit by myself in the corner.
 
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You took a risk and it fell flat. Don't dwell on it, don't worry about it, don't post on it. You will never know how she felt by thinking about it, so it's all pointless and will just make you feel bad. Instead, realize you did something that most people don't have the balls to do and feel good about that. Then go sit with someone else tomorrow.

EDIT: You didn't blow anything, she did.
 
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You did good.

School is a whole different animal so you answered your own question.You gotta wait awhile before you want the date/number..obviosuly depends on the girl.

Keep talking to her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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