I think I blew it...

[Jason#4]

I think a dorm's cafe is great place to meet people. You will find a lot of people eating by themselves. And nobody likes to sit by themself right? So today I asked a cute brunette if I could join her. Everything was going so smoothly. Then we started talking about movies. She said she hasn't seen Spider Man 2 yet. I haven't either so I asked her if she wanted to see it. Then she says, "uh, the movie?" and started talking about something else. So did I pop the question too early?

Jason

 

[Reto]

Sounds like she wasn't that interested if she changed the subject. Maybe the movie. Maybe you.

Either way, the cafe is a great place to meet women. I met tons that way when I was in school... remember, she's no the only woman in the cafe. Sit with a different one tomorrow...

 

[Recluce]

its all about risk vs. reward. the more often you take the risk, the higher your chances of getting a reward are. if you dont take the risk, you'll never even have a chance at the reward.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Originally posted by Recluce
its all about risk vs. reward. the more often you take the risk, the higher your chances of getting a reward are. if you dont take the risk, you'll never even have a chance at the reward.

Cliche statement but this post wasn't about risking or rewarding.

Jason - dude is this how you make friends? You gotta turn a 180 and change your whole approach. Your answer to your question? NO SH!T you asked early. That's like me coming up to you talking about Star Wars and telling you "Hey Jason, come over to my place I just got that new trilogy dvd" How likely are you to agree on the first hour that I met you?

 

[Caesar]

yeah you asked a little bit too early. Shouldn't waited a bit or got her number instead. Or maybe she thought you were too good to be true. You went up to her asked to join her, that shows confidence right there. She's probably thinking, "whoa a confident and good looking guy is asking me out? There must be a catch." Or maybe she has a boyfriend.

 

[Jason#4]

Well at least I tried. I was about to back out a the last second and sit by myself in the corner.

 

[Dapper Swindler]

You took a risk and it fell flat. Don't dwell on it, don't worry about it, don't post on it. You will never know how she felt by thinking about it, so it's all pointless and will just make you feel bad. Instead, realize you did something that most people don't have the balls to do and feel good about that. Then go sit with someone else tomorrow.

EDIT: You didn't blow anything, she did.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

You did good.

School is a whole different animal so you answered your own question.You gotta wait awhile before you want the date/number..obviosuly depends on the girl.

Keep talking to her.

 

[Caesar]

roll with it dude

 

[Jason#4]

thanks for your input guys