"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think HEIGHT is extremely important in getting girls.

-DJ-CAGE-

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haha what bullsh#t is this.
Girls just think guys who are taller have bigger ****s, what is bullsh#t aswell from talking to most of my mates who are all taller then me or i just have big d#ck, who knows.

Im 5.8 and had girls flirt with me instead of my taller mates, maybe because im more on their level, who knows.

Seems like all of my mates are taller then me aswell and i get more chicks then they do.

I have seen dudes with HB9 and HB10 and they were about 5.5 and chick was 5.8
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Danny Zuko

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Agree with Ice Cold once again people are exaturating 5'8 is not short at all the global average is 5'8 if that was to short ALOT of people wouldn't be getting any vag...let this thread die too much negativity.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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jakethasnake

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Originally posted by Fatality
Does your grandma think that 5'8 is short?


LOL - I agree that 5'8" is not short. It's simply average. Very average. And there's nothing THAT terrible about being average guys (at least in stature). Being average in personality or looks might not be the greatest thing, but being average height is okay, as long as you have something else to show for it.



I would say that 5'6" and under is definately short, 5'7" is borderline.
 

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im borderline..i wonder if i should draw a white line at the top of my head and say hey! im borderline!
 

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Speaking as a 'tall' guy, height isnt the end all and be all. If you know how to use your size effictivley it can be a nice tool, but hbs will ALWAYS go with the DJ rather then the tall AFC. Its just the way it is.
 

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how many guys her would go for a taller girl?
 

frivolousz21

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id go 1 inch taller....other than that..no!

which is why shorter guys dont care..we want a girl shorter than us!

so its all good!

HOLLA!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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00Kevin

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I agree. there are very few girls who would date a shorter guy anyway. Even if that happens.. that guy can expect to be the butt end of few jokes from his friends
 

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My best friend is 5' 5" and he's always had girlfriends taller than him. His current one is 5' 7". But his personality has more to do with that.
 

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Go to myspace.com. Its the face that matters. Any guy under 5'10 with nice face & style gets most females friends.
 

Alpine

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Well I'd go out with a six footer with heels on, I don't give a **** what others think.

If anything I'd be more worried about my neck and Chiro bills than people taking the piss.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tom121

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i am 6'0, but i'd rather have 8 inch penis instead of 6 :(
 

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Well i'm 5'3 and feel like crap since no girl wants a guy at such a height and everyone is either taller or wants a taller guy
 

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Originally posted by Spirometric
Well i'm 5'3 and feel like crap since no girl wants a guy at such a height and everyone is either taller or wants a taller guy
Maybe set your sights lower, literally? There are really short girls out there. Just beef the hell up.....hell, half the 5'3" guy population scares the crap out of me because they're so beefed up and full of themselves, lol.
 

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I'm 6'4", and I can definitely say height helps in attracting SOME girls. There's a sizeable group of girls who utterly get off on height, until it gets freakish that is.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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