Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Tha Realnezz said:In any scenario the first guys that always stand out to women(women not girls) is the taller men and the musclebound men.
I know butt ugly guys from my gym who get LOTS of attention..
The majority of hot women attracted to Brad Pitt's average physique are also attracted to his genetically perfect face, large bank account, and celebrity status.thickandcreamy said:Do these "butt ugly guys" pull girls? "Attention" and "sex" are two different things.
You should be clear on what you mean by musclebound:
1. Brad Pitt physique
2. Ron Coleman physique
3. John Cena/The Rock physique
The majority of hot women are attracted to #1 and not #2 or #3.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Sigh, of course looks matter, we've all gone over this and the people who said they didn't matter learnt that they did, and the people who said they were MOST important realised they only count for about 25% of the attraction.Vypros said:I used to a know a woman who was married to a guy who used to lift weights.
This guy was frikin' HUGE too. Tall, relatively good looking, had the whole package as far as looks were concerned. And he was into weight lifting and looking good and all that jazz.
You know what? She was REPULSED by it. Not just turned off, but repulsed.
They were divorced/seperated like 2 years later.
Muscles, looks, height, weight, they don't matter! Get that **** out of your brain right now. In actuality they do matter a LITTLE bit, but it's only like 20 % of the whole package that women are into! But for the purposes of this forum and the people who post her, FORGET ABOUT THE WAY YOU LOOK! FOR GODS SAKES SPEND THE TIME ON WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ACT!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I know girls that don't want their guys to dress nice,go out or have freinds of any gender.Kwello said:Some women actually are repulsed by it guys. My cousin wanted to start going to the gym with me and his girlfriend actually made him promise not to go because she doesn't like the look at all.
Everything in moderation is a key to remember. Don't start looking like some powerlifter/bodybuilder... women are usually NOT attracted to that other than out of morbid curiosity (you don't want to get fvcked as some science experiment).
The body and height can initially set you apart from the crowd which why I almost always wear shoes that can boost my height to 6'1 or 6'2. The face is the real captivator though and is your main tool.
Fred... the reason they have fame and fortune is BECAUSE they have the ability to captive the masses. You can't just throw money at someone and give them a movie deal and expect them to become huge stars. There's a certain 'je ne sais quoi' which resonates from the male stars.
Now look at their body types. Almost every single one of the most lusted after Hollywood men has a lean, slim, somewhat muscular figure... but they really aren't very built at all. Not even close.
^That's not creatine..lol..trust me..NickSCFC2000 said:Sigh, of course looks matter, we've all gone over this and the people who said they didn't matter learnt that they did, and the people who said they were MOST important realised they only count for about 25% of the attraction.
Yeah women get turned on by muscles, but I'm talking Brad Pitt muscles, not bit freaky Arnie muscles.
I know alot of guys at the gym who are muscular and always single, but these are the really muscular guys (ya know, the ones with huge zits on their backs due to all the creatine) and to be honest, most meatheads don't have much in the brain department.
So yeah, girls are turned on by a bit of muscle, if you're skinny bulk up, if you're fat go running, but if you're a meathead, well, you're ****ed.
1. MeatheadBluEyes said:What the hell is a meathead?
Are you for real? I'd consider myself above average but I'd give my left testicle to have the rock or cena's physique. And Brad Pitt's "physique" (assuming you mean the way he looks in fight club) is largely down to gentetics, he's naturally wide shouldered and well built, and so he just had to add a bit of muscle and then cut.thickandcreamy said:Do these "butt ugly guys" pull girls? "Attention" and "sex" are two different things.
You should be clear on what you mean by musclebound:
1. Brad Pitt physique
2. Ron Coleman physique
3. John Cena/The Rock physique
The majority of hot women are attracted to #1 and not #2 or #3.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Cool man good stuff. I've been going for 5 months and I've gained 17 lb, mostly muscle. Althoough I'm still only 175 at 6'1...I wasn't born with it but there's nothing hard work can't buy!Play the Game said:I started working out about a year ago. I gained about 20-30 pounds of muscle
and i'm really starting to get the attention from the ladies, especially the hotter and fit ones.
The fat girls no longer hit on me, they just give me dirty looks.
The shy ones are now TERRIFIED of me! haha
Tha Realnezz said:So that might be the answer to some of you "I'm a 9 yet I never get approached" guys.
you finally bought me. i need to work on my persona more than my looks. im already good looking but it won't get me anywhere if i can't keep interest.Vypros said:I used to a know a woman who was married to a guy who used to lift weights.
This guy was frikin' HUGE too. Tall, relatively good looking, had the whole package as far as looks were concerned. And he was into weight lifting and looking good and all that jazz.
You know what? She was REPULSED by it. Not just turned off, but repulsed.
They were divorced/seperated like 2 years later.
Muscles, looks, height, weight, they don't matter! Get that **** out of your brain right now. In actuality they do matter a LITTLE bit, but it's only like 20 % of the whole package that women are into! But for the purposes of this forum and the people who post her, FORGET ABOUT THE WAY YOU LOOK! FOR GODS SAKES SPEND THE TIME ON WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ACT!