"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think bascially...

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I think basically...

If a female makes you think too much or plays too many games then she IS NOT the one for you, if she is a flake or a AW then she is mos def NOT the one for you...guys stop wasting your energy on these *****es, It has taken me a while to come to the conclusion that I am a Man and I DO NOT need Women to make my life complete, that said ...when there is hardly any work with a female and she digs you as much as you dig here and she calls you when she says she will and she is direct and honest with you then THAT IS the girl for the you...

I'm 32 years old and I have a room mate that I know likes me but won't tell me and just plays games and puts me through hell but you know what I just ignore it now.

There is no point in caring, I had a girl that asked ME out of coffee then flaked on me and told me some pathetic ****...that it doesn't seem to be working and it's too hard too find time, so I said whatever I don't need you or your high school girl bull****...its no Big deal..farewell and she txted me back to say sorry and that she was out of sorts...I txted back and said you must have been out of sorts to txt me back, I told you I don't care leave me alone...

I keep meeting girls and getting bummed out with the way things work out...but I KNOW that it's not me and I just don't care anymore, it will happen when it happens and if doesn't oh well...I have had a very nice run in the past and sometimes I often wonder if Men and Women are really supposed to be together at all.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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there you have it boys, you *know* when a girl isn't interested in you when she repeatedly flakes/gives excuses to dates. you learned, now you move on!
 

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Yes But those girls shouldn't ASK me first though should they?.
 

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in the first couple of dates with a girl, i don't give much thought about her except for one thing: f ucking. that's all you really should think about.
 

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Sounds like you got your head on straight as well as a good attitude...

when we start the "NEEDINESS SYNDROME" thats when we fall about and feel sorry for ourselves....

Keep it Movin BRO!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Junior Sanz
Sounds like you got your head on straight as well as a good attitude...

when we start the "NEEDINESS SYNDROME" thats when we fall about and feel sorry for ourselves....

Keep it Movin BRO!
Thanks man it has taken me a while and it is due to a lot of things but yeah **** it why care?, you probably won't even remember half of the girls you get with or have persued in the next 20-30 years anyway.

I think this maybe why my room mate is acting odd around me, she doesn't know who to take me...she plays her games and I play them straight back, she starts to talk about hot guys and I say I don't care what are you telling me off and I walk off and girls that turn me down or are flakes are NOT good enough for me anyway.
 
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