"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think basically...

If a female makes you think too much or plays too many games then she IS NOT the one for you, if she is a flake or a AW then she is mos def NOT the one for you...guys stop wasting your energy on these *****es, It has taken me a while to come to the conclusion that I am a Man and I DO NOT need Women to make my life complete, that said ...when there is hardly any work with a female and she digs you as much as you dig here and she calls you when she says she will and she is direct and honest with you then THAT IS the girl for the you...

I'm 32 years old and I have a room mate that I know likes me but won't tell me and just plays games and puts me through hell but you know what I just ignore it now.

There is no point in caring, I had a girl that asked ME out of coffee then flaked on me and told me some pathetic ****...that it doesn't seem to be working and it's too hard too find time, so I said whatever I don't need you or your high school girl bull****...its no Big deal..farewell and she txted me back to say sorry and that she was out of sorts...I txted back and said you must have been out of sorts to txt me back, I told you I don't care leave me alone...

I keep meeting girls and getting bummed out with the way things work out...but I KNOW that it's not me and I just don't care anymore, it will happen when it happens and if doesn't oh well...I have had a very nice run in the past and sometimes I often wonder if Men and Women are really supposed to be together at all.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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there you have it boys, you *know* when a girl isn't interested in you when she repeatedly flakes/gives excuses to dates. you learned, now you move on!
 
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Yes But those girls shouldn't ASK me first though should they?.
 
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in the first couple of dates with a girl, i don't give much thought about her except for one thing: f ucking. that's all you really should think about.
 
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Sounds like you got your head on straight as well as a good attitude...

when we start the "NEEDINESS SYNDROME" thats when we fall about and feel sorry for ourselves....

Keep it Movin BRO!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Junior Sanz
Sounds like you got your head on straight as well as a good attitude...

when we start the "NEEDINESS SYNDROME" thats when we fall about and feel sorry for ourselves....

Keep it Movin BRO!
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Thanks man it has taken me a while and it is due to a lot of things but yeah **** it why care?, you probably won't even remember half of the girls you get with or have persued in the next 20-30 years anyway.

I think this maybe why my room mate is acting odd around me, she doesn't know who to take me...she plays her games and I play them straight back, she starts to talk about hot guys and I say I don't care what are you telling me off and I walk off and girls that turn me down or are flakes are NOT good enough for me anyway.
 
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