"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i tend to imagine every attracrtive girl i meet as a potential girlfriend

garruk

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this is terrible!!!!


lol, lately ive realized that i've started imagine what LTRs with girls that i meet would be like. obviously, this sort of commitment before i even know them is absolutely terrible.


the thing is, i dont have bad game, ive been going out everyweekend with a 50% success rate of hooking up. but this really only applies to girls i meet in school or basically during the day.

i dont have this problem with club or bar girls because i tend to see them as dirty.



but anwyays, does anyone else do this? start seeing girls you barely know or who are only slightly interested in you as potential LTRs? its giving me a headache.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I wouldn't do this.

It might sound like a good idea but it's just giving the power to women.

It's like you have to have women to feel like you're privileged in some way to behave alpha.

Instead, embrace that your masculinity alone is a prized object that anybody wants. It's that deep knowing of your direction and not wanting to give up your freedom in any way to anybody. That means getting whiplashed every time you see a good looking walk in. Stop the women worshiping in any way and sooner you'll realize they are like anybody else and treating them privileged only keeps you in that internal prison that you have kept yourself in for a very long time.

I have since stopped even looking at women unless I see direct eye contact at my periphery. I am not going to give any woman the power and if we have conversation it isn't going to be any different from the dudes that come into my life.

You often see guys smile gayly when they see some attractive woman approach them. What they don't know is that they are expressing a directly into their subconscious that they share some lack, some scarcity and that is the very reason they are kept away from enjoying the enormous amount of abundance with women available if they would stop pursuing women.
 

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garruk said:
this is terrible!!!!


lol, lately ive realized that i've started imagine what LTRs with girls that i meet would be like. obviously, this sort of commitment before i even know them is absolutely terrible.


the thing is, i dont have bad game, ive been going out everyweekend with a 50% success rate of hooking up. but this really only applies to girls i meet in school or basically during the day.

i dont have this problem with club or bar girls because i tend to see them as dirty.



but anwyays, does anyone else do this? start seeing girls you barely know or who are only slightly interested in you as potential LTRs? its giving me a headache.
I used to before sosuave when I was 16, but now i have to have already made a move to even begin to think about a girl in a relationship with me :flowers:

Just don't forget that every hot chick has someone that is tired of her sh!t. Also girls shi!t too.

Sounds like you just want a relationship at this point too.

- comic_relief
 
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