"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i tend to imagine every attracrtive girl i meet as a potential girlfriend

garruk

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this is terrible!!!!


lol, lately ive realized that i've started imagine what LTRs with girls that i meet would be like. obviously, this sort of commitment before i even know them is absolutely terrible.


the thing is, i dont have bad game, ive been going out everyweekend with a 50% success rate of hooking up. but this really only applies to girls i meet in school or basically during the day.

i dont have this problem with club or bar girls because i tend to see them as dirty.



but anwyays, does anyone else do this? start seeing girls you barely know or who are only slightly interested in you as potential LTRs? its giving me a headache.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I wouldn't do this.

It might sound like a good idea but it's just giving the power to women.

It's like you have to have women to feel like you're privileged in some way to behave alpha.

Instead, embrace that your masculinity alone is a prized object that anybody wants. It's that deep knowing of your direction and not wanting to give up your freedom in any way to anybody. That means getting whiplashed every time you see a good looking walk in. Stop the women worshiping in any way and sooner you'll realize they are like anybody else and treating them privileged only keeps you in that internal prison that you have kept yourself in for a very long time.

I have since stopped even looking at women unless I see direct eye contact at my periphery. I am not going to give any woman the power and if we have conversation it isn't going to be any different from the dudes that come into my life.

You often see guys smile gayly when they see some attractive woman approach them. What they don't know is that they are expressing a directly into their subconscious that they share some lack, some scarcity and that is the very reason they are kept away from enjoying the enormous amount of abundance with women available if they would stop pursuing women.
 

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garruk said:
this is terrible!!!!


lol, lately ive realized that i've started imagine what LTRs with girls that i meet would be like. obviously, this sort of commitment before i even know them is absolutely terrible.


the thing is, i dont have bad game, ive been going out everyweekend with a 50% success rate of hooking up. but this really only applies to girls i meet in school or basically during the day.

i dont have this problem with club or bar girls because i tend to see them as dirty.



but anwyays, does anyone else do this? start seeing girls you barely know or who are only slightly interested in you as potential LTRs? its giving me a headache.
I used to before sosuave when I was 16, but now i have to have already made a move to even begin to think about a girl in a relationship with me :flowers:

Just don't forget that every hot chick has someone that is tired of her sh!t. Also girls shi!t too.

Sounds like you just want a relationship at this point too.

- comic_relief
 
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