"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I swear i saw someone from sosuave 1 hr ago

DJVladdy

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Lol confess if it was you in Symphony market in Boston, "opening a set"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol you saw me? What were you doing there?
 

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Man i was just buying some food... so your saying it was you there, you know what college its across cuz i wanna make sure lol
 

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Like a group oof 5 girls came in i saw a guy just introducing himself, and 1 chick shook his hand... a had a gut feeling its someone off here
 

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Vlady if you are from boston, then we need to pimp some bytches together (p.s. no that wasnt me, I was at my place with a girl that I met off of myspace)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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umm, hate to break it to you, but sosuavers aren't the only ones who make cold approaches
 

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did u wanna say are NOT the only ones?
besides this guy spax says it was him i wanna be sure that would be a coincidence.

besides, i RARELY see people doing cold approaches
 

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Though there are also other forums like this that discuss and employ people to use cold approaches. Just saying, I remember eating at a famous Pho restaurant a couple months ago and a large group of people were discussing about techniques on how to approach women, I started to talk to them and asked them if they visited a particular website and they said no. They all got into it because of Style's book The Game.
 
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