"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I swear i saw someone from sosuave 1 hr ago

DJVladdy

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Lol confess if it was you in Symphony market in Boston, "opening a set"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lol you saw me? What were you doing there?
 

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Man i was just buying some food... so your saying it was you there, you know what college its across cuz i wanna make sure lol
 

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Like a group oof 5 girls came in i saw a guy just introducing himself, and 1 chick shook his hand... a had a gut feeling its someone off here
 

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Vlady if you are from boston, then we need to pimp some bytches together (p.s. no that wasnt me, I was at my place with a girl that I met off of myspace)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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umm, hate to break it to you, but sosuavers aren't the only ones who make cold approaches
 

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did u wanna say are NOT the only ones?
besides this guy spax says it was him i wanna be sure that would be a coincidence.

besides, i RARELY see people doing cold approaches
 

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Though there are also other forums like this that discuss and employ people to use cold approaches. Just saying, I remember eating at a famous Pho restaurant a couple months ago and a large group of people were discussing about techniques on how to approach women, I started to talk to them and asked them if they visited a particular website and they said no. They all got into it because of Style's book The Game.
 
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