"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

I swear i saw someone from sosuave 1 hr ago

D

DJVladdy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2007
Messages
1,037
Reaction score
17
Lol confess if it was you in Symphony market in Boston, "opening a set"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

S

spax

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2007
Messages
303
Reaction score
3
lol you saw me? What were you doing there?
 
D

DJVladdy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2007
Messages
1,037
Reaction score
17
Man i was just buying some food... so your saying it was you there, you know what college its across cuz i wanna make sure lol
 
D

DJVladdy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2007
Messages
1,037
Reaction score
17
Like a group oof 5 girls came in i saw a guy just introducing himself, and 1 chick shook his hand... a had a gut feeling its someone off here
 
A

AFC Savior

Banned
Joined
Nov 20, 2007
Messages
354
Reaction score
3
Vlady if you are from boston, then we need to pimp some bytches together (p.s. no that wasnt me, I was at my place with a girl that I met off of myspace)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

O

Obsidian

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2006
Messages
2,554
Reaction score
26
Location
TN
umm, hate to break it to you, but sosuavers aren't the only ones who make cold approaches
 
D

DJVladdy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2007
Messages
1,037
Reaction score
17
did u wanna say are NOT the only ones?
besides this guy spax says it was him i wanna be sure that would be a coincidence.

besides, i RARELY see people doing cold approaches
 
W

War Against Betaism

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2007
Messages
1,600
Reaction score
28
Location
California
Though there are also other forums like this that discuss and employ people to use cold approaches. Just saying, I remember eating at a famous Pho restaurant a couple months ago and a large group of people were discussing about techniques on how to approach women, I started to talk to them and asked them if they visited a particular website and they said no. They all got into it because of Style's book The Game.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top