"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I swear... a suggestion

jive

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I'm sure people in the past have brought up the suggestion of removing the swear filter, and I'm sure you have a good reason for keeping it. I know that it doesn't just filter swear words (i remember that a link to a site gets filtered) but if you could remove some words that are commonly used for a few reasons:

1) Everyone usually finds some way to bypass this, so having the filter would just be a nuisance. IMO, not much point in having it, as either way most people still say the word, just misspelled.

2) Messes up some peoples' message when they really aren't using profanity

3) Flame posts are usually closed or deleted anyway, so in regard to the first 2 reasons, certain words being filtered hurts more than it helps.

If anything, an option to turn on/off the swear filter should be made (if possible to do that is)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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haha... I saw a post today that used the word "****ies" talking about pants....

but it came out as

"****ies*
 

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Originally posted by jive
1) Everyone usually finds some way to bypass this, so having the filter would just be a nuisance. IMO, not much point in having it, as either way most people still say the word, just misspelled.


As I've said before, you don't have to fucking misspell the goddamn swear words if you know what you're doing. Of course, people probably think I'm a dick or an asshole for doing this shit though.

2) Messes up some peoples' message when they really aren't using profanity
Yeah, like Moby Dick or Dick Cheney.
 

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Fucking double post.
 

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Re: Re: I swear... a suggestion

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Fucking double post.
How do you do that? The bypassing, not the double post I mean.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how the fuck did u do that fuckin shit man!! damn, if only i could fucking say fuck!!
 

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what the ****?
 

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Re: Re: I swear... a suggestion

That's a great fucking trick Giovanni:D
 

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I must be a ****ing idiot...

*Edit* Son of a *****, how do you do it? Atleast PM me if you don't want everyone to know...damn I must be bad...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by crazykid
*Edit* Son of a *****, how do you do it? Atleast PM me if you don't want everyone to know...damn I must be bad...
Goddamn, man... just fucking quote me and you'll understand.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Goddamn, man... just fucking quote me and you'll understand.
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHH... now I fucking get the goddamn thing...
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Goddamn, man... just fucking quote me and you'll understand.
****? does this ****in ****tin work? I mean what the ****in hell!

Edit: Ohhh, i fucking get it now!
 

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Originally posted by SoSuave.com
Of course, anyone who tries to get around the filter will be banned. Just FYI.
Hmm... Casanova and other buddies didn't got banned.
Oh, they've got warned.

But why ban?
They are cheaters when they get around the filter?
It's equal cheating if you spell the bad words wrong.
Actually it's more (taking filter making old ladys viewpoint) damaging to little childs moral if the words are written even wrong to have them visible. Oh, they must be bad, thinks child.

I don't see really the reason why the filter exist.


But what I really think it's kinda lame to get around the filter like this to have the words right... ;)




But hey...
How I could better say if I'm some girl is grinding my ass while dancing wth me? grinding my butt?
Or yeah, I should write grinding my a$$ or azz instead. Looks stupid.

And when some members don't speak english and we are talking about dicks in some thread and someone is avoiding the stars (****s) by using words like jimmie instead.
Oh, I understand english well, I don't have the problem.
But I really COULD have. And all foreiginers don't speak english as well as I do...

NOTE FOR THAT GUY NEXT TO BAN BUTTON: :D
I just used those bad, bad words to make my post as clear as possible and easy to understand.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by SoSuave.com
Of course, anyone who tries to get around the filter will be banned. Just FYI.
I'll keep that in mind since I don't want to get banned...you do know that the thread in the Anything Else forum that got deleted was just for fun, right? :D
 

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Originally posted by SoSuave.com
Of course, anyone who tries to get around the filter will be banned. Just FYI.
:p

You'll notice that outside of these threads concerning the swear filters, I never use that method to get around them. Instead, I use the morally pure, clean-as-a-whistle, boy-scout method of using a f*cking star in my godd*mn words, and maybe it looks like sh*t when I have a star in the middle of the word "c*nt" or "d*ck", but life's a b*tch and then you f*ckin' die.
 

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@sosuave.com
I really do not care about this swear word discussion, but your style of replying here is inappropriate.
You were asked, WHY you installed them and you basically replied with "I am God" and chickened out of explaining anything. This is an absolute loser way of discussing things.
Instead, you could have EXPLAINED the reasons, and then said, you will ban everyone, who tries to get around the filter.
Besides, almost any poster has already misspelled nasty words, so if you ban them all, not much will be left of the forum.
 

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This is true, he could have explained.

But why insist on using swear words? I think the filter might be necessary for someone just coming on this site and reading the posts. It helps to maintain the legitimate reputation of the site. Swearing makes us look like we are unintellegent and that we are just a bunch of immature teenagers who don't know what we are talking about. Because of this, new people would be more likely to disregard the information presented here. Of course it's not going to stop most everyone from using these words and many readers may just overlook them, but I think it would discourage more people from using these words than if the filter is not present.

But I would like to hear his explanation. ;)
 

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Originally posted by simplyme
@sosuave.com
I really do not care about this swear word discussion, but your style of replying here is inappropriate.
You were asked, WHY you installed them and you basically replied with "I am God" and chickened out of explaining anything. This is an absolute loser way of discussing things.
Instead, you could have EXPLAINED the reasons, and then said, you will ban everyone, who tries to get around the filter.
Besides, almost any poster has already misspelled nasty words, so if you ban them all, not much will be left of the forum.
These are His forums. He is God here. Everything He says is appropriate. If you disagree, you're free to leave this community as you please.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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