"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I swear... a suggestion

jive

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I'm sure people in the past have brought up the suggestion of removing the swear filter, and I'm sure you have a good reason for keeping it. I know that it doesn't just filter swear words (i remember that a link to a site gets filtered) but if you could remove some words that are commonly used for a few reasons:

1) Everyone usually finds some way to bypass this, so having the filter would just be a nuisance. IMO, not much point in having it, as either way most people still say the word, just misspelled.

2) Messes up some peoples' message when they really aren't using profanity

3) Flame posts are usually closed or deleted anyway, so in regard to the first 2 reasons, certain words being filtered hurts more than it helps.

If anything, an option to turn on/off the swear filter should be made (if possible to do that is)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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haha... I saw a post today that used the word "****ies" talking about pants....

but it came out as

"****ies*
 

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Originally posted by jive
1) Everyone usually finds some way to bypass this, so having the filter would just be a nuisance. IMO, not much point in having it, as either way most people still say the word, just misspelled.


As I've said before, you don't have to fucking misspell the goddamn swear words if you know what you're doing. Of course, people probably think I'm a dick or an asshole for doing this shit though.

2) Messes up some peoples' message when they really aren't using profanity
Yeah, like Moby Dick or Dick Cheney.
 

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Fucking double post.
 

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Re: Re: I swear... a suggestion

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Fucking double post.
How do you do that? The bypassing, not the double post I mean.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how the fuck did u do that fuckin shit man!! damn, if only i could fucking say fuck!!
 

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what the ****?
 

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Re: Re: I swear... a suggestion

That's a great fucking trick Giovanni:D
 

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I must be a ****ing idiot...

*Edit* Son of a *****, how do you do it? Atleast PM me if you don't want everyone to know...damn I must be bad...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by crazykid
*Edit* Son of a *****, how do you do it? Atleast PM me if you don't want everyone to know...damn I must be bad...
Goddamn, man... just fucking quote me and you'll understand.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Goddamn, man... just fucking quote me and you'll understand.
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHH... now I fucking get the goddamn thing...
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Goddamn, man... just fucking quote me and you'll understand.
****? does this ****in ****tin work? I mean what the ****in hell!

Edit: Ohhh, i fucking get it now!
 

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Originally posted by SoSuave.com
Of course, anyone who tries to get around the filter will be banned. Just FYI.
Hmm... Casanova and other buddies didn't got banned.
Oh, they've got warned.

But why ban?
They are cheaters when they get around the filter?
It's equal cheating if you spell the bad words wrong.
Actually it's more (taking filter making old ladys viewpoint) damaging to little childs moral if the words are written even wrong to have them visible. Oh, they must be bad, thinks child.

I don't see really the reason why the filter exist.


But what I really think it's kinda lame to get around the filter like this to have the words right... ;)




But hey...
How I could better say if I'm some girl is grinding my ass while dancing wth me? grinding my butt?
Or yeah, I should write grinding my a$$ or azz instead. Looks stupid.

And when some members don't speak english and we are talking about dicks in some thread and someone is avoiding the stars (****s) by using words like jimmie instead.
Oh, I understand english well, I don't have the problem.
But I really COULD have. And all foreiginers don't speak english as well as I do...

NOTE FOR THAT GUY NEXT TO BAN BUTTON: :D
I just used those bad, bad words to make my post as clear as possible and easy to understand.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by SoSuave.com
Of course, anyone who tries to get around the filter will be banned. Just FYI.
I'll keep that in mind since I don't want to get banned...you do know that the thread in the Anything Else forum that got deleted was just for fun, right? :D
 

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Originally posted by SoSuave.com
Of course, anyone who tries to get around the filter will be banned. Just FYI.
:p

You'll notice that outside of these threads concerning the swear filters, I never use that method to get around them. Instead, I use the morally pure, clean-as-a-whistle, boy-scout method of using a f*cking star in my godd*mn words, and maybe it looks like sh*t when I have a star in the middle of the word "c*nt" or "d*ck", but life's a b*tch and then you f*ckin' die.
 

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@sosuave.com
I really do not care about this swear word discussion, but your style of replying here is inappropriate.
You were asked, WHY you installed them and you basically replied with "I am God" and chickened out of explaining anything. This is an absolute loser way of discussing things.
Instead, you could have EXPLAINED the reasons, and then said, you will ban everyone, who tries to get around the filter.
Besides, almost any poster has already misspelled nasty words, so if you ban them all, not much will be left of the forum.
 

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This is true, he could have explained.

But why insist on using swear words? I think the filter might be necessary for someone just coming on this site and reading the posts. It helps to maintain the legitimate reputation of the site. Swearing makes us look like we are unintellegent and that we are just a bunch of immature teenagers who don't know what we are talking about. Because of this, new people would be more likely to disregard the information presented here. Of course it's not going to stop most everyone from using these words and many readers may just overlook them, but I think it would discourage more people from using these words than if the filter is not present.

But I would like to hear his explanation. ;)
 

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Originally posted by simplyme
@sosuave.com
I really do not care about this swear word discussion, but your style of replying here is inappropriate.
You were asked, WHY you installed them and you basically replied with "I am God" and chickened out of explaining anything. This is an absolute loser way of discussing things.
Instead, you could have EXPLAINED the reasons, and then said, you will ban everyone, who tries to get around the filter.
Besides, almost any poster has already misspelled nasty words, so if you ban them all, not much will be left of the forum.
These are His forums. He is God here. Everything He says is appropriate. If you disagree, you're free to leave this community as you please.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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