"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I suck!!! Every Girl Rejects Me

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some of you gotta act like you're your own age..

NMA, i don't want to tell you this but i will.. it seems like you're just making a big fuss because of what happened.. your problem is nothing. from the way how i see you are complaining to the members here, i can see the problem... shows that you got something you should fix before you rant.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Seriously, though...Do people here stand in front of the mirrors and give themselves pep talks before they go out, or is SoSuave just populated with a lot of really gullible people that can talk themselves into anything? If you fail routinely with women, there's no way (short of delusional personality disoreders) that you can just will yourself confidence.

Confidence requires that you BE confident in something...how can one be confident in their prospects for success if they have never actually achieved any successes of note?

So, it creates an interesting paradox: if you cannot be successful until you are confident, and you cannot have confidence until you have some successes...
 

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I'd watch a few Marlon Brando, James Dean, John Wayne, James Bond movies to get my look down.

James Bond never smiles, and his eyes are never wide like a deer, he looks like a killer.

Be friendly but have the look of an assassin.
 

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ok guys i appreciate your help but i asked a girl 19 years old what she thought of me in the looks department

i will translate what she said

" your not that horrible but you aren't the hottest guy in the world either!!!if you know what i mean...but your are getting old also..well stay cool "


now tell me, this girl was direct or was she?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i tried to get some more info about my looks from this girl and here's what she told me:

" ok i'm going to be sincere with you, the only thing that is wrong in your pics are your ears!!!,with this i said what i had to say, you have big ears, too big for your face but as i said before there are lots of guys uglier than you "

ok have u guys noticed that too if so, what can i do to improve? i can always go to the gym and improve my body never my face, by other words, i'm completely ****ed at least this girl had the balls to say it.

ok guys i'm out the game

good luck to u all
 

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Remember how I told you to grow your hair long?

Do that. It will take the attention from your ears.

Done.
 

NoMoreAFC

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man i'm almost 29 and growing bald, how can i grow my hair long?

it just doesnt work
 

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Man we all get down every now and again...but ffs you sound soo pathetic get a life allrdy!
 

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i will man, now i know why all of them reject me so i wont even bother to look at them, i will ignore them and live my own life.

thats all i can do
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
i will man, now i know why all of them reject me so i wont even bother to look at them, i will ignore them and live my own life.

thats all i can do
I think your an average looking guy (NOT UGLY)

So i think the best advice you can take onboard was from the guy who said "Take it easy,have patience and it will happen"

i think i'm in the same boat as you atm....i'm trying to hard to get something where i should really just take it easy.
 

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you got to do something about your hair. thats what ruining your looks to be honest. get a wig or a hair transplant. eh man i heard ben affleck has had a hair transplant.
 

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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
i can always go to the gym and improve my body never my face,
This is where you are mistaken. When you build your body, your facial features change rather dramatically too. The increased muscles in your jaw and neck will undoubtedly take emphasis from your ears (not that I see them as a problem).

Besides, it really changes people's entire perception of you as a person. Eg:

http://www.whudat.com/temp_sounds/vindiesel1.wmv

http://hem.passagen.se/vin_diesel/storage/cutesmile.jpg

And his face hasn't changed that much!
 
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