"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I still miss my ex, what do I do?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tinctrar

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Ease said:
Normal till you find someone else. Nothing soothes like the touch of another woman.

If you still miss her after that, then that is a different case. Something i have not experienced.
Well said. I feel this way as well. My last gf was more of a rebound...and it helped me alot. Saw things that I didnt see while single.

Funny thing is I fell for the rebound. And I broke up with her last night. Go Figure.
 

garruk

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Nino-Tk said:
I feel your pain amigo, I really do I mean the reason I joined this site was mainly because I also lost a Long-term GF...she cheated on me with my BEST friend...yeah I know, messed up ain't it? The first time step I took was to ADMIT that what we had was gone forever...And I allowed myslef to miss her at times because we were so close,Im no robot and so are you, I think missing her is not good but remembering the good times is cool...Don't over do it though because a woman should never dominate your state of mind...One last thing, Its going to take time maybe weeks, months or whatever..It took me months but now i'M cool and I'm dating 2 chicks, In the meantime though you Must move on and get a new chick

wow thats rough. i hope you still arent freinds with that guy because thats no friend.
 
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