"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I still miss my ex, what do I do?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tinctrar

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Ease said:
Normal till you find someone else. Nothing soothes like the touch of another woman.

If you still miss her after that, then that is a different case. Something i have not experienced.
Well said. I feel this way as well. My last gf was more of a rebound...and it helped me alot. Saw things that I didnt see while single.

Funny thing is I fell for the rebound. And I broke up with her last night. Go Figure.
 

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Nino-Tk said:
I feel your pain amigo, I really do I mean the reason I joined this site was mainly because I also lost a Long-term GF...she cheated on me with my BEST friend...yeah I know, messed up ain't it? The first time step I took was to ADMIT that what we had was gone forever...And I allowed myslef to miss her at times because we were so close,Im no robot and so are you, I think missing her is not good but remembering the good times is cool...Don't over do it though because a woman should never dominate your state of mind...One last thing, Its going to take time maybe weeks, months or whatever..It took me months but now i'M cool and I'm dating 2 chicks, In the meantime though you Must move on and get a new chick

wow thats rough. i hope you still arent freinds with that guy because thats no friend.
 
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